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Q: lost my sex drive ?
asked by: Da24 on November 14th, 2008
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pleaaaaaaaaaaase guys help me, I really gonna cry because of this....

This issue started 2 months ago! I used to masturbate/have sex 3 to 6 times a week, but now I barely do it once every week covereyes

I lost my sex drive, and wanna know the best ways to restore it, even if it takes 1 year. I feel really bad? I mean I'm too young to lose my sexual drive? is it maybe because I don't do any kind of sports??? if it's food I do eat very well, and my weight is good compared to my hight ( I'm 165cm and 60kg )
do I need to stop having sex/masturbating for few months in order to get my sex drive get better??

please let me know what to do? I really need your help, and I don't know what to do Sad
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lovemysoldier
replied on November 15th, 2008
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First I would talk to your Doctor. And don't feel ashamed... they hear this kind of thing on a regular basis.. so, your Doctor will know how to treat you or at the very least give you direction on how to fix this.

You may be bored with sex (physically). Part of sex is excitement. Think of it this way.. if you go to a Carnival and ride the roller coaster, it's fun. If you get back in line, it's still fun. It's still fun even if you ride the roller coaster repeatedly all day while you're there.....

Now, think of this.... You get a season pass to the Carnival. You ride the roller coaster each time you go... repeatedly. How quickly will you get tired of it. How soon will you lose the thrill? So.. now the carnie tells you that the ride is out of service for a while for repairs.... psychologically, you're bummed out because you can't ride the roller coaster for an undetermined amount of time....even though subconsciously you were sick of riding it anyway....

See where I'm going with this? You need to ride other rides at the Carnival including the roller coaster...not just the roller coaster... so you don't wear it out. When you get back up and running... be sure to add variety to your sex life and be sure to stop off and get a lemonade so you can recharge between rides!

LOL Sorry for the bad analogies.. it was something that popped into my head and I went with it!

Good luck!
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Da24
replied on November 23rd, 2008
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So it's possible to gain it back,,,,,,,,, thanks alot Very Happy
but any advice for gain it back naturally? some kind of exercises, food or anything? I really feel bad about it, I mean I'm only 24 years old and it's too early for me to loss interests in sex T_T
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