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If yo uare not happy wiht the job yo uare wroking at, I'd suggest look for something else. Maybe in another line of work. There are lots of places you could get a job. Have you thought of going back to school to earn a degree? There are small Technical schools taht offer courses some completed in 18 months....you get a degree and they help find you a position. Many places help you financially as well, paying tuition, books and and fees needed. You could go to school and work. You did not state you age, but I presume you are young. I can't tell you if oyu were not ahppy with your boyfrined, or jsut your life at the time. I can tell you, that now you are on your own.....you need to do some soul searching. You need ot sepnd some quality time with yourself and ask yourself what is it you want in life. I waitressed when I was younger. It was $ from tips everyday that I did not have the day before. I was 30 when I went back to school with a 4 year old at home. Alone.....Ran the dead beat off........Best thing I could have ever done for myself. I felt proud whn I walked up there to receive my diploma. I actaully landed a great job with bebefits and I could live the kind of lifestyle I dreamed of. Instead of worrying how hte rent would be paid, I own my house, I have $ in CD's and IRA acacounts for when I retire. I own both of my vehicles and I can take vacations. I could not have done this had I stuck with ''''''painting houses for a living'''''''. TO name a few odd jobs I did before going back to school. Just a suggestion.....Life is what YOU make of it!

i am going to be 21 in oct... i am in school now majoring in architecture, i am in my 2ed yr of that, but i would still have to transfer to another school because of the fact that i am now at a 2 yrs community college, the only problem is that while im in school what to do bout a job that pays well that isnt waitressing....... also i ment to post earlier, but could it be a sin on depression? should i talk to my doctor?

I wanted to write because I was in a situation like that not too long ago. I was in a relationship that i was trying to make work because i had a kid with him. my mom told many times that i have alot a soul searching to do. if you think really hard about what you REALLY want in life. I'm a strong believer of everything happens for a reason. If you can afford the job change i would do it. If you love your man and want to be with him i bet if he loved you he'd understand why you did this whole thing.

thanks to both of u guys should i give it more time til i talk to him bout our relationship? it has only been 2 days? if so how much time? mysweeterin what did u ever end up doing bout ur relationship?

You know him better than any of us do. How much time you should give it depends on the two of you, but if you are that miserable then I suggest you call him and start getting the two of you fixed. It sounds like to me that it wasn't the two of you that had the problem. The problem was your job. You need to do some soul searching about changing jobs if that is possible and if it isn't then maybe the two of you can sit down and talk about what is going on there and let him help you with the problems you are having there. Sometimes just having someone to lean on makes the situation a little more bearable. Give it a try. Best of luck.

seems like if you broke up with him becuz you were unhappy that maybe it was meant to be that way. i dont think there would have been any doubt in your mind if you wanted to be with him even if you were/are unhappy.