Lost and Alone, How do I Cope Posted: 04-13-08 18:09pm
Hi, i just had my relationship of 3 years,
fall apart before my eyes. I feel so lost,
like I'm walking around in circles. I love
her so much. I was gonna ask her to marry
me, I bought the ring, but we ended before
I could ask. I know they say time heals
all wounds but this hurts so much, I cant
eat, I cant sleep I cant think, I don't
know what to do anymore, she was the girl
of my dreams, and now shes not there
beside me anymore. I've had other
relationships in the past not work out,
but it never felt like this. I have no one
to empty my mind to, all my friends just
tell me to suck it up or just ignore me.
We still have contact and I'm not sure if
I should.
Is it ok feeling like this? Should I seek
help or just wait it out?
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DeseRAE
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Joined: 25 Mar 2008 Posts: 28 Location: North Bonneville, WA United States
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Posted: 04-13-08 23:32pm
I'm sorry you're going through a tough
time. I felt that way too after an intense
break up I went through. I think the best
thing to do would be wait a little a bit,
try to find someone, anyone willing to
listen, to talk to and then if you still
feel really torn up then get help. I hope
things get better!
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bumponshaft
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Joined: 09 Apr 2008 Posts: 3
Posted: 04-13-08 23:49pm
brotha if anyone feels you its me.. and
the whole time thing is true.. and you
will have this pain you feel until you
meet a girl that blows the last one outa
the water.. i dunno if your religious or
anything but everything happens for a
reason.. its her loss and your gain.. it
just means you got a solid girl out there
waiting for you.. dont look for her but
keep your eyes open.. same exact thing
happened to me.. i sulked and was
worhtless for 5 months.. and now i have
the best girl in the world that im going
to marry! keep strong man youll b aight..
i know its hard.. trust me i know just
keep busy.. dont stay in your house.. go
out.. chill with people.. youl get through
it i promose!
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Sadfella
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2007 Posts: 8 Location: London, England
Posted: 04-21-08 08:55am
Hi mate, just read your post. I split
with my fiancee about 6 mths back. It
does get easier by the day, my only
advice would be surround yourself with
people who love you, take up or return to
a hobby you enjoy - it will help take you
mind off. I believe like the other chap
says that it does happen for a reason.
Chin up my friend - I feel for you
