From past couple of months, my sexual desire has been vanished from my married life. To satisfy my husband's need i mostly going through it. I discussed it with my husband. He started forcing me and so i started giving excuses. I didn't find any apparent reason for that lack of desire but now i am afraid. Can anyone help me to figure out my problem or any solution.
Your lack of desire could be from a number of things, like if your stressed, certain medications, a change in birthcontrol...etc
there are a lot of possible reasons, you're going to have to find out which one before you can decide on a solution. Has there been any changes in the past couple of month that you can link with the lack of sex drive?
hey maddie34 , it could be from these things but now it leads me to several other things also like frustration. it also ruin my married life and my relationship. Sometime when my husband is desirable, i can't satisfy him and so sometimes feeling insecure. I don't want to lose him as i love him so much.
Should i discuss with him or consult doctor???
For the past year and a half, my wife and I have not had sex of any type.
This all seemed to happen the same time as she changed her demeanor towards me.
She seemed angry and reclusive from me and the kids.
She has been in therapy for the past year and still no changes.
Thinggs seemed to change around the same time as her "pill" change. She wanted to regulate her periods and I can't recall the name of the med at this time.
Things have calmed a bit now, but if I even mention anything to do with sex she gets furious!
m also having troubled relationship from loss of sexual desire. I blame my hubby too cuz he doesn't touch me the way i want and he cant turn me on. I have orgasm when he performs oral sex. I asked him many a times to watch erotic movie, may that would help... have u tried watching romantic movie?
does ur husband turns u on? i think once i get horny it would be okay but i dont get to that point... i prefer some romance before having sex not just sex..
does your husband rush into sex? Does he turns u on? or touch u the way u want? does he make it romantic? do u get wet enough? cuz my husband rush into sex witout performing long foreplay... and its not romantic at all.. i've had plan to have sex after my last period but dint... now again m having my days... and this time decided to have sex... for that i'll set romantic environment as someone suggested me in my last post... do read that also.. she gave some really good ideas... wear something sexy and put on some romantic music or sing for your husband... mood lighting etc..