hi.. i had the same problem after my daughter was born i had the problem for four years and i had a tummy tuck whit a good doctor the scare is in the bikinni area so you can not see it and my muscles are strong because of the surgery also they removed all the fat tissue and your muscles are one in top of the other inside, and now I have a strong belly and flat and I can used a bikini like my friends

Thanks for the quick reply .I live in newzealand and that sort of thing is expensive so i do have to think of other ways,surgery is very scary for me.

oh, you never ben to california or mexico? i live in california but my surgeon is in tijuana mexico that's why my surgery it was half of price from here and i was so scare because i had surgeries when i was little but the doctor was really helpfull and professional