Hi there i am a 24 year old guy and i have this problem for a fair while i am currently in a relationship with the best girl in the world and i want to sort this once and for all i will probably see a docter but going to see what you guys say here first.

Ok my problem.
As the topic says i can loose my erection but it is strange as when its played with it stays firm if left alone for a few secs or so it will go soft i have found with kegel exercises i can keep it erect longer but not enough i think. I dont want to be doing this all the time just to stay hard but even when i do stay hard a few mins with penetration it goes soft, not completly just borderline being hard enough this happens the majority of the time, if it does happen i turn to masterbation to make it hard again but by doing this i last a hell of alot less time. Every once in a while i have no problem at all but it really is once in a long while, but even then somtimes i last a few mins somtimes up to an hour or so, really strange.

Before i got with my current partner i used to masterbate every day somtimes even 3 times i stay hard doing this also but i have now stoped this as this may have been the problem in the past also.

Also i used to smoke but have now given up (2nd day today) wasnt sure if this could also be the problem.

Me and my partner are pretty active in that department also seeing if that helps even tho thats our sexual drive anyway but i am really worried that she will 1 day just think sod it i cant take this anymore and leave.

So pleeeeease guys please help me out

Thanks