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Q: losing drive after orgasm?

asked by: hunterjumper01 on April 9th, 2008

New User

after having an orgasm I immediately feel DONE, i.e. lose all sexual drive, wetness, etc. how on earth are you supposed to have multiple orgasms? Is it common to still be aroused after finishing? If i finish before the guy the time until he finished is not pleasurable and I feel like we need to break out a bottle of lube because I dry right up! i was reading cosmo and it suggested an awesome way to prep for actual sex was allowing the guy to bring you to an orgasm orally before even having sex-I know this would never be possible for me!

can someone please enlighten me?? Confused

Replies(6)

Maddie34

replied on April 9th, 2008

Moderator

Well, whats wrong with busting out some lube? Does it still hurt even after you apply lube?

When I orgasm before sex I dry up but then we use lube and it feels good again. Sometimes I do have to wait a little bit before though because I do get really sensitive. Lube usually really helps

coliejo

replied on April 10th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

I lose all my drive immediatly too, and i have never tried lube. I will have to try it.But it happens even if we use a condom and I dont think you are suppose to use lube with a condom. I have never been able to have multiple orgasms, i dont even think it is possible for me.

I think my main problem is i just get very sensitive, almost like it tickles for a while and I just want him to be done!

If i come across any solutions, I will let you know.

Maddie34

replied on April 10th, 2008

Moderator

Using lube with condoms is safe. I've even been told its a good idea to put a DROP or two (no more) inside the condom too for him.

Give lube a try. You may have to stop and apply more during sex too so keep it close by.

And with oral sex before actual intercourse. Nothing is wrong with you taking a small break if things don't feel as good right away. It doesn't mean everything needs to stop, just you're done receiving for awhile Very Happy

preciousone803

replied on April 10th, 2008

New User

i have that same problem sometimes too. i need to be broken in before i am used if u know what i mean. i have to have some kinds of fore play before i right. sometimes he just feel that kissin on my neck will get the job done. and it takes a lil time to get it in because im dry. try some fore play first, maybe you can do like me and get a lil toy to help you out. i also went to the sex store and got some handcuffs and emotion lotion. i have some more things for you to know so hit me up if you need further information.

njw753

replied on April 12th, 2008

New User

Sweet Almond Oil makes for a great lube. It's pure and good for the body. It's also a great massage oil, which leads right into sex. Never gets goopy or sticky. I love it.

brookster29

replied on April 14th, 2008

New User

Lube is a necessity for me....even when I am aroused, I just dont get enough wetness down there and intercourse is painful. But lube helps 100%. And yes, it is definitely safe to use with a condom. In fact, a condom that is lubed on the outsite has less friction and resistance in your vagina, therefore the risk of tearing goes down.

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