Hello doctor,i rekha 27 years old i got married when i was 20 i had an aboshion in the month of 7 (i delivered the baby normal delivery) after i had 3to 4 aboshion (DNC) and now i got a baby who is 4 years.some times my husbad says doctors has not stiched after delivery.now the problem is my husband is not liking to have sex with me says it is very loose even i do not fell it inside,i get fart from front, and i really get wet very much. my husband likes the lubrecent but it is not matching because i have loose vegina and this is afftcting my marreage life please advise me. i was think that if i can get few stitch i do not know if it is possible.please do help me
Given the data you reported (one birth, one vaginal abortion in seventh month of pregnancy, your husband claiming that he fells the vagina is too loose), you might be experiencing a loose vagina. The most frequent reason for a loose or wide vagina is giving birth to one or several children. The vaginal walls start to weaken. This might even cause losing the support the vaginal walls give to the urethra and the rectum, thus eventually resulting in incontinence.
The weak vaginal wall muscles might also be age related. All muscles in the body, including the vaginal wall muscles weaken when getting older. Weakened vaginal wall muscles might lead to increased volume of the vaginal cavity. This might be a reason for less friction during sexual intercourse which in turn might cause loss of sexual pleasure.
The treatment of this condition might involve surgical tightening of the vaginal walls. The back vaginal wall muscles are tightened with this type of operation. You might want to visit a gynecologist to check whether you are a candidate for surgery and to see if there are no conditions that would make the surgery impossible.
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