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this is something im very self conscious about but its really getting to me know. my out a labia's come out a little not overly, but enough that i get embarrassed about. Ive been with my partner for 2 and a half years and hes never mentioned anything which im thankful for, but still i get a little funny about. he doesnt know this, its more a personal thing. BUT my best friend on e day saw me getting changed and since then whenever anything comes up in a funny context about vaginas or anything like that shes like "haha yeah unlucky you have long flaps" or if i told her i had a good night with my bf, shed say "why did he suck on your long bits". i get so embarrassed, i dont know why she brings it up, i never know what to say back. should i talk to my partner about it? Embarassed
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replied July 27th, 2008
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I think you should read this article

http://www.sexylabia.com/articles/playboy- labia.htm ( i swear thats not some kind of weird spamming lol)

Many men find large labias very attractive and it is by NO means something to be ashamed or embarassed about
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replied November 15th, 2011
Thankyou so much for this article! I feel way better about myself now x
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replied July 27th, 2008
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Do not worry. Your friend is joking (or, not being kind to you).

Your boyfriend hasn't brought it up for a very simple reason: it's not a big deal. If you want to talk to him about it, sure. I'm sure he'll tell you it's no big deal.
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replied July 29th, 2008
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i know i shouldnt worry about it, but i do.
what do people think about this condition..
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replied January 15th, 2009
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I definitely do not think you should worry as I have one as well... men are intrigued ,,and indeed give me great pleasure as they are excited and it excites me ,,,, i get great oral from them because they like it so much
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replied January 15th, 2009
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little_lele89 wrote:
i know i shouldnt worry about it, but i do.
what do people think about this condition..


As a guy, I should tell you, that I find it sexy. It's not a such a big deal, but it's sexy. You can tell your friend that sex is much better for you and and boyfriend. (it is in fact true). Google your topic you are going to find that's a cool thing.

You shouldn't go crazy about it. I think your friend is just jealous.
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replied January 15th, 2009
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Majority of people "real people: do not have the designer body, when you look around you people come in different shapes and size and so does "Labias."

Wait till you have a kid, then they are so swollen they hang low and you become greatful of what you do have.

Porn stars may have the perfect body but what do they do for a living, I think people need to get this image out of there head, its entertainment...

Regardless of if you have small labia or a big labia, no two people are the same!
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replied January 15th, 2009
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The bigger- the better
I find that" men who has women with big/ juicy labias are very lucky because they have more to suck on!
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replied January 15th, 2009
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bo21 is a nerd!
But yeah being open about it might help, you will be surprised. And your BF will more thank likely looked past it.
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replied January 15th, 2009
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Re: long labia..
little_lele89 wrote:
this is something im very self conscious about but its really getting to me know. my out a labia's come out a little not overly, but enough that i get embarrassed about. Ive been with my partner for 2 and a half years and hes never mentioned anything which im thankful for, but still i get a little funny about. he doesnt know this, its more a personal thing. BUT my best friend on e day saw me getting changed and since then whenever anything comes up in a funny context about vaginas or anything like that shes like "haha yeah unlucky you have long flaps" or if i told her i had a good night with my bf, shed say "why did he suck on your long bits". i get so embarrassed, i dont know why she brings it up, i never know what to say back. should i talk to my partner about it? Embarassed


your friend isn't much of a friend. you are who you are. your boyfriend couldn't care less. don't let yourself be bothered by it. tell your friend that when she says that stuff, even if she is joking that it's hurtful and to please stop. don't be embarrassed about your body, it's beautiful and they way God made you. enjoy it...enjoy it with your boyfriend. forget what your g/f says as she is just being a jerk.

vaginas are like flowers. they're all different. some have bigger petals than others...some petals curl out...some are thicker and some are thinner. some are longer and some are shorter...BUT, they are all very beautiful in their own right and no doubt lele, yours is as well.

jasmine
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replied January 16th, 2009
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Just to add to the great comments already mentioned here. A long labis is normal and certainly nothing to worry about. Mine is a big and I have never, ever, had a guy complain about it or tease me in any way.

My 2 cents.

Wendy
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replied January 16th, 2009
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I agree with wendy it is nothing to worry about many woman have long ones Smile Jenny
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replied June 2nd, 2009
help!
i have the same problem. i really like this guy, he is not a virgin and i am. i really want to do more then kiss him, but he is 17 i am scared he will tell his friends about it and im just really scared what to say to him and if he asks why its like that or makes fun of it..
please just imagine it in my position having sex or doing more for the first time.. i want it to be good and i dont want him to tell his friends about it because it will spread and im embarresed :S
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replied June 2nd, 2009
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if you honestly think there is a risk of him telling his friends that you and he are "doing more" then he is the wrong person for you.

you should be with someone who you trust to keep your relationship between yourselves. period.

if i don't have that much faith in a man (to keep his mouth shut about us/me), he won't get very close to my body.

i know that's not the answer you were looking for, but it is honest and i hope it helps you.

make your first time worth it with someone who loves you unconditionally. ok?

jasmine
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replied June 17th, 2009
um it wasnt really because i dont want to have to do this with every guy im with!
im not sure with any guy i dont want to have to keep thinking maybe he wont maybe he will
i just want to know how to explain it to him!
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replied June 17th, 2009
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I just want to add something….after my son’s birth things got stretched. One side to the point it tore in half! My inner labia are larger and longer and look different.…I wasn’t pleased at 1st. But my hubby cant stop talking about how sexy it is and how nice my ***** looks. He loves lookin at me even more now…I don’t know if its cause they are bigger…I have never asked. But he likes it. And before I had lips like those porn stars…so for me it was hard to deal with…but now I feel sexy…im a mom and sex goddess…

Tell yourself good things about your lips….done beat yourself up. If anyone makes you feel bad then they arent worth keeping around.
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replied June 17th, 2009
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I said it once, and I say it again" the bigger, the better! They are a big turn on when they are large and long, plus" there are more to suck on, and they are more juicy! Honestly, I love them big and long!!
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replied June 18th, 2009
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bo21 wrote:
I said it once, and I say it again" the bigger, the better! They are a big turn on when they are large and long, plus" there are more to suck on, and they are more juicy! Honestly, I love them big and long!!
Okay...why are you posting like that? Seriously, its good and all that you like long labia, but this is not a place to "hook up", nor is it a place to exploit your sexual fantasies. It is good that you are showing that men do like long labia and its nothing to be ashamed of, but please, seriously, cool it a bit on the graphic descriptions.
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replied June 18th, 2009
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Thanks motherofhighspiritedones,
I will cool it a bit, but I am not seeking a hookup,
I am pleased with the woman in my life, and are not interested in anyone else! Sorry if you took it different, but I will cool it a bit!!!!
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replied July 28th, 2009
thanks
honestly that actually helped me alot with mine. yes i have the same problem and it makes me so much better to know how many more people have the same =] thanks all
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