I am 12 weeks pregnant with an unplanned pregnancy and only 21 my boyfriend is 28 and i have only known him about 3 months met him a week before conception. Getting pregnant was truly a mistake and i know that but I don't believe in abortion personally so it is not an option for me and my boyfriend is really against me putting our baby up for adoption. But the farther along i get the more depressed and lonely i get i only moved to the state i now live in a month before i got pregnant and i know nobody but my boyfriend. He claims to want the baby and to raise it together but as of lately he has been ditching my to go on motorcycle rides and such i hardly ever see him anymore and when i do hes drinking. he says he just wants to get the partying out of him now but he doesn't seem to care that hes hurting me in return. I have a subchorionic bleed and am going on and off of bed rest frequently there fore am unable to do much. i now spend most of my time crying and sick to my stomach. i dont feel like doing anything anymore and i dont feel like i can keep going thru this i was wondering if anyone had any advice that could help me
I don't have any real advice, but I do feel your pain. I am not as far along as you, but I am just as depressed. I am so scared this depression will only get worse. It has been some time since you posted this, are things any better?
Have you told your family? How are they taking it? I am so scared to tell mine.
My boyfriend isn't really on board about adoption, but I don't think he and I can really support a child. I think adoption is the best choice for the baby, even if it is going to kill me emotionally.
I'd really like to hear how you are doing.