You can't possibly have every flaw a man could possibly have.

But I know how rough it is for someone to put all your flaws out in front of you. It seems like the list is endless and that there couldn't possibly be any left that is a positive thing.

Trust me hun, you may have flaws, but you've got positive qualities too. Are any of these flaws something you can make a conscious effort to improve?

so you think that the only reason your on earth is to just procreate??? sorry if that didnt sit to well wit me hun it kinda sounded too macho. men arent here JUST for that...their protecters,givers,supporters, etc. too. then you said that you want someone to love just you and not be cool with your friends or family? when someone is in a real relationship you dont have to LOVE their friends or family but at least be cool and respect them you kno

your 23 rite? you still have a long way to go. im 24 and im barely in my very first ever long term relationship. im not here on earth just to procreate, i can remember when i used to be so bummbed and scared that i would be alone for the rest of my life. but during that time that you are you can do so much imporvement not because of the flaws your ex listed but because its self-empowering for you...believe me i did it. confidense begins to show and woman...the good woman will see it. the type of woman that wants to be with you, yet give you your space, the one that'll make you dinner, who respects your family and friends, wont get jealous if you kick it with your friends...the one you kno :)everyone has flaws...everyone. she had flaws, she probably went and listed yours because she saw that in herself and was way to scared to face her own.

but dont worry, dont focus on your flaws cause everyone has em. you wont be alone for the rest of your life, just let that love come to you

Keep in mind that people say things when they're mad that they don't necessarily mean.

It's also very easy to do that to your ex.

Just keep doing what you're doing, regardless of your ex has said.
If you bagged her, chances are you'll find another.

Sounds like they way she handled your situation you can only go up from her.