The lesbian woes….
I met this girl online a few months back ( a friend of a friend) on face book. I wrote a note about gaming in a humorous manner how gamer girls are awesome, anyway she added me and we started talking even though I was on the other end of the country. Our conversation were very generalized in the beginning but became more personal a few weeks before moving back home. Four months later I moved back home, I would make every effort to hang out with her or go to events where I know she would be, things were great and I couldn’t stop thinking about her. SO, I asked her out, she said yes but she has never been with another woman, so technically does that qualify her as being straight(well now bi.)

Our relationship up to date has been pretty good, we have the intimacy factor, we stimulate each other mentally, we get along 97% of the time and respect each other’s personal space but we are lacking the sexual aspect. I’m not trying to come off as some sexual craved creature, I’m not but when the other person has you all worked up and then jets it really pushes certain buttons…. To add on top of the fire I found out at a party she is still virgin (was blurted out) in front of me and others.

So my question is how do I ease into the sexual aspect of a relationship? Take it farther or should I let it go? What could I say to her without hurting her that I want to take it further? I do care for her, she is beautiful, intelligent, energetic and sweet but I want to take it further and sometimes I wonder if I’m being jerked around or whatnot. Any advice?