OK! so i didn't know EXACTLY where to
stick this so I put it here. I need some
help. Though I'm trying to stay away from
actual sex, I'd still like to know
something that's been on my mind.
I've had sex a few times. Under ten times
really. But it seems like every time I
had, something went wrong. You see, i'm a
fairly small person. 4 feet 10 inches to
be exact. And the boy I was having sex
with didn't have a very large penis. about
4 or 5 inches. well, every time we'd have
sex, it'd go good for a few minutes, and
then it seemed his penis kept hitting this
really hard barrier inside me. And it hurt
REALLY bad every time he tried to push his
penis in farther. And i don't know what it
is. What that barrier is. I was thinking
it was probably where my cervix was, but
he's not that long. If that was the case,
then there's only about 4 or 5 inches
between the opening of my vagina and the
cervix. So i'm not sure.
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lil_scorpio
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Posted: 04-17-08 19:35pm
Don't feel bad, the same has happened to
me! I'm 5'2", short also. My boyfriend's
penis is like 4 inches, and he has hit
something inside that hurts too. I think
our boys are trying to overcompensate for
what they think is a small penis, so they
really try to 'stick it to us'! LOL! Just
tell him that he doesn't have to go that
deep, that it actually hurts, and try to
kind of reassure him by letting him know
that his 'size' is just right for you. I
did this with my boyfriend, and no more
pain! =) Also, maybe he's getting a
little too excited and doing it
accidently. By just talking to him you
should be able to get some relief. And I
think this "barrier" you're talking about
could be the cervix, because if you're in
a position kind of pushing down, and he's
really going at it, I think you could hit
it.
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xbostonx
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2008 Posts: 96 Location: Boston, MA
Posted: 04-18-08 12:45pm
Yeah the same thing happens to me. I am
also only 5'2 and my boyfriend is only
about 5 inches. When he does go too deep
it does hurt sometimes. Sometimes it does
feel good. I think that he feels like he
needs to make up for the size of his
penis. Hes very self-conscious about it. I
always try to tell him that it is fine and
he knows how to work it well and thats all
that matters.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 04-18-08 14:41pm
Yes, that's probably your cervix. The
length of the vagina is not really that
long. It grows when you're aroused, but
still isn't like 10 inches or anything (of
course different in every woman)
Also, the time in your cycle will affect
how it feels, for example, I can't have
deep sex right before my period because my
cervix is too sensitive and it hurts.
Other time, like mid-cycle, it feels good.
You can probably find positions where it
can't go as deep and still feels good for
both of you, start with you on top so you
can control the depth.
