You are fine!!! I'm 52 and I have always hurt on the left side almost ever time my husband of 30 years and I have intercourse. You are not sterile! I have a 19 year old son. Also I see my ob/gyn every year, and 3 times I saw him in between that year to year check up. To be checked for the left side pain, during intercourse. Last week Feb.16th 2011, I was still convinced that my ovaries, had a tumor, or cist, or something even more serious. My Dr. is great !!!!! He sent me for another, sonogram both external, and internal. Again, the Dr. and the specialist, found NOTHING wrong anywhere. The ovaries, uteris, & everything was FINE. You and I are just in that pain group. Have your partner kinda turn his penis toward the other side, when it"s inside you, and it will be better. Believe it or not, the penis can move almost on it's on. I know you are only 16, ya know?, but you are already having sex so I don't mind giving you helpful info. Enjoy life to the fullest, because I can tell you It will pass you by fast. You really should always use birth control. I love kids and wanted them for years, to the point I was depressed and cried, every day for years. I had our son, who is 19 now, only after 2 misscarrages, and a son born 2 & 1/2 months premature, he only lived 1 hour & 45 minutes, and after I had been married 11 years. So, what I mean is, I was 33 years old and married 11 years when I finally had the baby I had been crying for. And if you get pregnant now even if you think your ready, you WILL give up your whole childhood, and later on you will become depressed. Don't let you or a baby suffer an early pregnacy, or take these precious early years (you) DO need, too soon. When your older you will know when your done having childhood fun, and you will then be ready for babies, and you will enjoy them and yourself for the rest of your life with NO, NONE, ANY regrets. SO, I'm sorry to sound like a mom, but I am one, so have a very fullfilled and happy life. Be carefull!!!!!! This is from a caring person.
Your 16.. You shouldnt be having unprotected sex.. im 25 and i get the same problems, i end up crying with the pain most nights, i went for surgery and docsfound nothing, so your better off just trying to find different positions that is comfortable for you, and be careful be sure to get checked every couple of months!!!
Where are your parents?!!! They are horrible! You should not even be having sex so young AND not married! If my daughter did that ( and first of all she never will) i d beat the life out of her and disown her. Immoral children, that is what you all are
I see that everyone has an opinion for Karina. It's not our place to judge someone that we don't know. She is asking for help and answers to her questions, not to be condemned or judged. It's not nice to call someone parents horrible when you don't know them. It doesn't matter what your child does, the love should always remain and never should be disowned. Beating the life out of your kids over something that they probably picked up as a teenager is not called for them to get beat. Some people really need to keep their comments to themselves before someone end up getting hurt or hurting themselves. Karina, keep yourself protected at all times. Find a person of whom you are comfortable talking to and share your feelings and concerns with them. I wish you the best of luck sweetie
You would beat the life out of your daughter? It get's you that mad, that even even the thought of it happening makes you....VIOLENTLY ANGRY?
Did you ever stop to think that this 16 year old girl doesn't have parents or someone to care for her well being and safety?
Also 16 or not, if your child want's to have sex (consensual), she or he is going to do it with or without your permission.
Wow, it baffles me why you would spew so much HATRED on to a girl who is asking for help.
Congrats though on the irony of your post. YOU would beat the life out of your daughter (kill her) for having unprotected sex, yet, YOU had the audacity to condemn karina's parents by labeling them as "Horrible."
yea i agree that woman is the one who should be disowned and i mean by society for that ignorant way of thinking. I too have a problem and i want help i am 28 and not married. I know teens have sex young and follow crowds so I dont judge the younger generation. Just be sure to protect yourself at all times!
Hey there! I know your post is older but I have recently been having pain on the left side during sex (and I'm 26). It's not a constant pain, just when he goes deeper. Turns out, the issue could be an ovarian cyst. I've had those before in my later teens/ earlier 20's. They eventually go away; they're just fluid filled sacks attached to your ovary/ ovaries. It was suggested that I take 400mg of ibuprofen to alleviate pain. Also you could try being on top.
As for nikolajvhv; how dare you say those hateful things to another woman seeking help! We should be focused on building each other up. Not tearing each other down.
A cyst on your ovaries can cause the problem you are having and I would just like to add that in my country it legal for 16yr olds to have sex but I would strongly suggest protection as it not pregnancy to be concerned about it all the infections