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Q: Leaving abusive boyfriend
asked by: mapsn on February 4th, 2009
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he is abusive in all the ways anyone will think off. call me names,hit me in front of his friends even if i ask him to stop dnt do this n once he tried to kill me because i caught him with a girl and he came back saying how sorry He was and now im still not happy and i really want out but i always go back to him and i love him so much and we been together for 3 years now and he promised me the world and he says he want to be with me and he will make it up to me. he takes my money and spends and when it finished he spends his but not with me and i gave him my car and he crashed it and now i dont have a car but he has his and i the one who gave him money to buy it but he goes on with other girls and i always take the taxi home and never picks me up. he spend all my money and i was saving for my birthday and he said he will take care of it but came my birthday he doesnt have a cent and he was not at home for a week and he was staying with a girls in my appartment and when i got there to check on things i find him with a girl and he kicked me out and that when he hit me i almost was killed. i really need help because he wasnt like this ever since he started cheating he started hitting me. i need a new life i want out.
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diamondsz
replied on February 4th, 2009
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CALL THE POLICE~!

Charge him with damage to your car, nest time he hits you take a picture of a bruise if one is apparent and get yourself into a womans shelter! Ask for a restraining order, I would highly suggest you go to a womans shelter but if the sitiuation becomes WORSE please call the cops. I do not tolerate abuse in any way shape or form and the more you allow it, the more he will think its okay, you are just his pet and he doesn't give two shytes about you.

If you want to talk you can always send me a pm but please do this for yourself, there is so much better in this world! If you get the chance read up on Isabel allende she is an incredible motivating feminist!

Woman or men do not deserve to abused mentallu or physically and yes it occurs on both sides!

Good luck sweety!
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J3nnyuk
replied on February 4th, 2009
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Hi hun sorry you are going through this...I totally agree with diamondsz he is really talking the mick out of you hun,am sorry to say because i can tell you love him or did love him dearly....Get out hun before it gets worse good luck and we are all here for you....Jenny
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ServiceU
replied on April 30th, 2009
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It sounds like he's using you or he is really immature and disrespectful. you have to get away from this guy...police... protection order what ever it takes.
please dont allow these things to happen again.
i allow a young immature guy take everything from me and i was left with nothing at the end. and i was eternally scared. you need to be with someone thats a "help mate" not someone that takes things away such as car, money, love, esteem.
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kristenitsme
replied on May 5th, 2009
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You need to get away from him while you can. He will always buy you things to try and make everything all better, for awhile it will be. Trust me been there done that i actually put my bf in jail. Just get out you dont need that in your life. There are sooo many guys out there that will treat you like you should be treated!!
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