I am a MOTHER, I am PROCHOICE, I am NOT anti-baby or anti-uterus. I am NOT anti-christ. Whether I question his existence has LITTLE relevance to the abortion debate. So that point is MOOT. I have NO biases against people who have children, I think it is possible to become a mother at anytime, if the woman CHOOSES to become a mother. I would NEVER sleep with a married man, unless I am married to him (thus making him my husband)nor would I sleep with a woman, but I do NOT look down upon those that choose to do so. You mention that the most vocal of us on this forum fit into those categories but you FAILED to mention that NOT ALL OF US fit into EVERY category. And you only bring up the women, such as myself (who questions the existence of God but DOES NOT deny his existence is a possibility)and oop (who finds the thought of bearing a child, much less carrying one is vile, which she has every RIGHT to feel), among others, you bring us up because our views clash with yours. Using us as statistics is wrong and very catty/snarky of you. If you have ever noticed, I do not try and conglomerate all prolifers into one group, so why use me, solely based on my religious beliefs, as an example in your pretend statistics? I am truly pro-choice, and if you have ever read any of my posts you would know that I actually agree with you on a lot of points when it comes to abortion, the difference being, I do not use my BELIEFS to discount others' beliefs/experiences. I see ALL sides. I disagree with calling a fetus a ball of cells just as much as I disagree with calling it a baby, but I find both terms acceptable, because both terms are not factual but based upon one's emotional opinion. Which is perfectly okay. What I DON'T try to do, like you seem to do, is make everything black and white. You only need to go to the topic where you decided to nitpick through my reply to a post ( I believe it was called "Abortions and Difficulties in the Future", but "difficulties" was misspelled) and call me a liar for saying "Not all abortions are done for social reasons". I respect the prolife opinion when it is not used in an extreme, yet I have yet to see/hear a prochoicer act violently toward the prolife movement, nor have I seen/heard about prochoicers picketing abortion clinics, nor have I seen/heard about prochoicers bombing or mur***ing fellow prolifers. So, yes, I do tend to see that there are far more radical prolifers than radical prochoicers. And by the way, it is VERY possible to be prolife, have an abortion, be anti-baby and anti-woman, just as possible as it is to be prochoice, carry a baby and respect women. I actually know of a few prolifers that have had abortions but are vehemently against the procedure itself. And yes, they were prolife at the time of their abortions. One of them NEVER wants children but states that abortion is homicide and she knows she committed homicide but that God will forgive her as she has repented and is active in the prolife movement. The other had a condom oopsie, had an abortion to save her marriage and is still happy picketing at clinics. One other was not using protection, but had already decided that having children was not her thing, aborted and she still argues with me that being prochoice is wrong.
My point is, there are fallacies to both sides, but all in all, if you look at the violence, it is coming more from the prolife side, so it is perfectly acceptable to say that we get our point through with less violence than prolifers. It is also perfectly acceptable to say there are more prolife extremists (I am talking strictly about social extremes, such as homicides, bombings, violent picketings, hurling sexual insults at women walking into clinics, despite the fact that they might just be going in for a breast exam or a pap smear)than there are prochoice extremists. Yes, there are a few on both sides, but far more on the prolife side. And you are absolutely correct, alot of the violence stems from religion. However, a true christian ( so I am told) does not judge and knows no one sin is greater than another. Therein lies the problem. I have a right to my religion or lackthereof just as much as I have a right to my body. The religious prolife extremists do not see it this way. And they are the ones that cause most of the problems. A lot (but not all, it is possible to be a conservative christian prolifer who does not see violence as a way of making things better) of the less extreme prolifers are agnostic or even athiest, because religion is NOT a factor in their choosing to be prolife. Their choice is more based upon their personal view of life and the life of the fetus. And while I may argue with them too from time to time, it is easier to see their side because their views are not obstructed by religion.