Well I'm over 20 days late, and I've had a blood test done, and I'm not pregnant. But I get painful spasms in my vagina, and I'm gaining weight like crazy! I'm always tired and my hormones are outta whack. I've been peeing like crazy too, I was also tested for infections by the hospital and I have none. Last night when I had sex, I was on top and it hurt, felt like a cramp. Same guy, and never had a problem before. Whats wrong?