If you were just fingered and no penatration than you most likely are not pregnant. It takes intercorse to get pregnant. If you don't have you period soon try seeing your doctor to see whats going on with your body.

Hey rosie071
You're not pregnant. It's not at all atypical for stress or other factors to put your cycle off by a few days.

Okay thanks but after I posted this I have been getting cramps n bloating n only spotting n its like ma 5 day n its late

It sounds like you will be getting your period soon. If you do not get your period please go see your doctor. There are several reasons why you might not get your period like stress or over excercising and there are others those were just examples. It is not possible to get pregnant with just using a finger.

Yea but its about to b a week that its late and still nothing..I have cramps ...but I only spotted...yea but he fingered me n he also rubbed against me but my panties were on so that's why I'm asking. I need a reply asap. And plus I keep stressing because I keep thinking that I'm preg

girl you are not pregnant. rubbing and fingering does not cause pregnancy and if you are that scared take a test baby

You really need to see a doctor to see what is going on with your body. You are not pregnant unless you did more than what you have posted. You need intercorse to get pregnant. Thats his penis into your vagina. You can go to planned parenthood. If you still think your pregnant take a test it only take a few minutes and is not expensive. I feel it would be a waste of your time because if what you have posted I strongly don't believe that you are pregnant. Have you had other sexual incounters that could have resulted in you becoming pregnant? Keep me posted on your situation and I hope you get some answers soon.

I have only been that sexual with a guy but the problem is I only spotted and I have not gotten ma periond but I hvave gotten cramps but the month is about to end n still nothing..that's why I am concerned

Then thats why you need to see a doctor because there is no way that you have missed your period because your pregnant. You don't get pregnant from fingering or dry humping. I take it that your young and don't know your body yet. I can tell you from experience that sometimes our body changes and we may not get our period when we thought we should. Sometimes this is due to hormonal changes, weight gain or lost, stress, or even being around other women. I know you probably heard of friends getting their periods around the same time. I'm not sure what causes this I just know when I hang with other women a lot our periods start to come around the same time or right after one another. Since there is so many different things besides pregnancy that can cause you to miss your period you really need to see a doctor. Some causes could more serios than the ones I wrote about. So can you do this for me, will you see a doctor and find out what is going on with your body. From my own experience I can tell you that if there is something wrong with you don't put it off. I was having severe pain for about six months before going to the emergency room. Since at the time I went I was on my period I was told they were just bad cramps and sent on my way with pain medication. I then went to my own doctor who told me that my body was changing. After not getting the treatment I know I needed I went to another doctor who told me it was all in my head. This is common when women complain of something the doctor cannot figure out. I let this go and continued to see him every other month where he would check me but, not find something. To make a long story short when he finally took me serios, my tumors were to large to remove I know need an hyserectomy. Please do not make the same mistakes I have. Learn from my mistakes. I truely care about womens health so thats why I continue to post to you.

If you don't get the treatment you think you deserve don't be afraid to speak up either. Its your body and no one can know it better than you.

im in the same situation right now. had my boyfriend finger me, a little bleeding occured later. 2 days later i had my period and now its a month later and i feel awful. breasts are swollen, weight gain, cramps,big tummy,lots of urinating , and nausea. Im a virgin and had never been fingered before, so im stressed right now waiting for my next period. went for 2 pregnancy tests and both showed negative, so am definately going for a blood test because i dont understand what is happening to my body.

I cannot express enough how you cannot get pregnant from just being fingered. There is no sperm in a finger. If you girls do not understand how you get pregnant maybe instead of having for play with your boy friends you need to take a sex education class. You have to have sperm come in contact with an egg. Which then is fertilizied and moves up into your uterus. I have yet to meet a male that has sperm coming out of his finger. You should now about "the birds and the bees" before having any sexual contact what so ever. You need to know how to protect yourself from diseases and unwanted pregnancies. Also I have learned that some young girls today think performing oral sex on a guy is not sex and is safe. You can catch STD's that way so it to should be avoided until you are mature enough to make the right decisions. Another sexual act young girls who are still calling themselves virgins is anal sex. This to can spread an infection from an infected person to their partner. You should be less worried about being pregnant if you just had the fingering and more concern about the decisions you are making. The life you save might just be your own.