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I have 2days late wit my period n I havnt gotten it yet n I'm very worried n I was fingered like 4 weeks ago is there a possible chance I can b pregnate?
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replied August 21st, 2009
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If you were just fingered and no penatration than you most likely are not pregnant. It takes intercorse to get pregnant. If you don't have you period soon try seeing your doctor to see whats going on with your body.
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replied August 21st, 2009
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Hey rosie071
You're not pregnant. It's not at all atypical for stress or other factors to put your cycle off by a few days.
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replied August 22nd, 2009
Okay thanks but after I posted this I have been getting cramps n bloating n only spotting n its like ma 5 day n its late
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replied August 23rd, 2009
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It sounds like you will be getting your period soon. If you do not get your period please go see your doctor. There are several reasons why you might not get your period like stress or over excercising and there are others those were just examples. It is not possible to get pregnant with just using a finger.
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replied August 26th, 2009
Yea but its about to b a week that its late and still nothing..I have cramps ...but I only spotted...yea but he fingered me n he also rubbed against me but my panties were on so that's why I'm asking. I need a reply asap. And plus I keep stressing because I keep thinking that I'm preg
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replied August 26th, 2009
girl you are not pregnant. rubbing and fingering does not cause pregnancy and if you are that scared take a test baby
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replied August 28th, 2009
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You really need to see a doctor to see what is going on with your body. You are not pregnant unless you did more than what you have posted. You need intercorse to get pregnant. Thats his penis into your vagina. You can go to planned parenthood. If you still think your pregnant take a test it only take a few minutes and is not expensive. I feel it would be a waste of your time because if what you have posted I strongly don't believe that you are pregnant. Have you had other sexual incounters that could have resulted in you becoming pregnant? Keep me posted on your situation and I hope you get some answers soon.
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replied August 29th, 2009
I have only been that sexual with a guy but the problem is I only spotted and I have not gotten ma periond but I hvave gotten cramps but the month is about to end n still nothing..that's why I am concerned
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replied August 30th, 2009
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Then thats why you need to see a doctor because there is no way that you have missed your period because your pregnant. You don't get pregnant from fingering or dry humping. I take it that your young and don't know your body yet. I can tell you from experience that sometimes our body changes and we may not get our period when we thought we should. Sometimes this is due to hormonal changes, weight gain or lost, stress, or even being around other women. I know you probably heard of friends getting their periods around the same time. I'm not sure what causes this I just know when I hang with other women a lot our periods start to come around the same time or right after one another. Since there is so many different things besides pregnancy that can cause you to miss your period you really need to see a doctor. Some causes could more serios than the ones I wrote about. So can you do this for me, will you see a doctor and find out what is going on with your body. From my own experience I can tell you that if there is something wrong with you don't put it off. I was having severe pain for about six months before going to the emergency room. Since at the time I went I was on my period I was told they were just bad cramps and sent on my way with pain medication. I then went to my own doctor who told me that my body was changing. After not getting the treatment I know I needed I went to another doctor who told me it was all in my head. This is common when women complain of something the doctor cannot figure out. I let this go and continued to see him every other month where he would check me but, not find something. To make a long story short when he finally took me serios, my tumors were to large to remove I know need an hyserectomy. Please do not make the same mistakes I have. Learn from my mistakes. I truely care about womens health so thats why I continue to post to you.
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replied August 30th, 2009
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If you don't get the treatment you think you deserve don't be afraid to speak up either. Its your body and no one can know it better than you.
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replied October 21st, 2009
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im in the same situation right now. had my boyfriend finger me, a little bleeding occured later. 2 days later i had my period and now its a month later and i feel awful. breasts are swollen, weight gain, cramps,big tummy,lots of urinating , and nausea. Im a virgin and had never been fingered before, so im stressed right now waiting for my next period. went for 2 pregnancy tests and both showed negative, so am definately going for a blood test because i dont understand what is happening to my body.
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replied October 23rd, 2009
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I cannot express enough how you cannot get pregnant from just being fingered. There is no sperm in a finger. If you girls do not understand how you get pregnant maybe instead of having for play with your boy friends you need to take a sex education class. You have to have sperm come in contact with an egg. Which then is fertilizied and moves up into your uterus. I have yet to meet a male that has sperm coming out of his finger. You should now about "the birds and the bees" before having any sexual contact what so ever. You need to know how to protect yourself from diseases and unwanted pregnancies. Also I have learned that some young girls today think performing oral sex on a guy is not sex and is safe. You can catch STD's that way so it to should be avoided until you are mature enough to make the right decisions. Another sexual act young girls who are still calling themselves virgins is anal sex. This to can spread an infection from an infected person to their partner. You should be less worried about being pregnant if you just had the fingering and more concern about the decisions you are making. The life you save might just be your own.
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replied September 4th, 2012
Well lets say he is getting turned on and he needs to shift his little friend and there could vary well be pre-cum and he fingers you again it could come in contact. There is ALWAYS that little chance.
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replied September 2nd, 2010
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Gotquestions1524:

hey! i wanted to ask u a question about the situation these girls are having..well although i fully understand that fingering and dry humping do NOT result in a pregnancy, cant u possibly get pregnant if "he" may have ejaculted from masterbation then fingered "her"? of course that meaning that he must have had cum on his finger! its a slight chance however very much possible, no?

and i also jus wanted to say thanks for really helping out other women in need! your an awesome person!

now heres my situation..im 2 weeks late but no symptoms of pregnancy! ive been badly stressted due to college cuz of takin assessments and the difficulty i had tryin to register, also i lost the most important person in my life jus after i graduated and i been depressed since! my diet is terrible as well! i eat maybe once a day but only junk food or fast food or greasy foods! my sleeping patterns are bad too..i sleep maybe 5 hours a nite! cud the stress from school, diceased loved one, terrible diet, and poor sleep be the cause for my missed period?

the last time me an my hubby "fooled" around we only did a little forplay but he got carried away n touched the tip of his penis to my butt cheeks! not even close to penetration and there was no pre-cum! so i highly doubt im pregnant but i happen to be one of those who worries that roof will blow if in a storm! lol so if u cud jus ease my mind a bit it wud be greatly appreciated!!

ps. sorry this msg is so long...pls get back to me asap! thx again! ur great! Very Happy
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replied February 6th, 2011
No you are not pregnant. As others have said, you need intercourse to be pregnant. Causes for your period to be late, could be if you've started hanging out with other people or even your friends have met someone else that they've been hanging out with lately. When girls are on their periods, they release chemicals through the skin which other girls' bodies around them can pick up on. They then slowing "sync" to one another's body schedules depending on how long and frequent they interact.
Don't stress, everything will be okay. You're probably just late because you're too stressed out about thinking you are pregnant.
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replied February 7th, 2011
gotquestions1524 wrote:
I cannot express enough how you cannot get pregnant from just being fingered. There is no sperm in a finger. If you girls do not understand how you get pregnant maybe instead of having for play with your boy friends you need to take a sex education class. You have to have sperm come in contact with an egg. Which then is fertilizied and moves up into your uterus. I have yet to meet a male that has sperm coming out of his finger. You should now about "the birds and the bees" before having any sexual contact what so ever. You need to know how to protect yourself from diseases and unwanted pregnancies. Also I have learned that some young girls today think performing oral sex on a guy is not sex and is safe. You can catch STD's that way so it to should be avoided until you are mature enough to make the right decisions. Another sexual act young girls who are still calling themselves virgins is anal sex. This to can spread an infection from an infected person to their partner. You should be less worried about being pregnant if you just had the fingering and more concern about the decisions you are making. The life you save might just be your own.


I am absolutely amazed that a woman believes she can get pregnant from fingering. Initially I thought the question was a joke but after reading the same question from another woman I find the miseducation or LACK of education quite sad. The participants in this forum are extremely patient. I give you all kudos. The bottom line is this, if there was no penis and vagina contact then you ARE NOT pregnant. Well, unless he had semen on his finger when he fingered you. Semen ONLY comes from the penis. A finger entering you CAN NOT get you pregnant. Humans were not designed to exert semen from the finger. If you fingered yourself you WILL NOT get pregnant either. No one, male nor female, can get you pregnant with a finger. I really hope this helps. Taking a pregnancy test is a waste of money. Please see your doctor and tell him/her about your missed period. It could be stress related, weight related, or just a change in your body and hormones. Also if you speak to a doctor they will explain everything that these ladies have been telling you. If you do not believe these ladies in this forum, perhaps you will believe a doctor. (I hope I didn't offend anyone.)
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replied February 11th, 2011
hi
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replied March 13th, 2011
I am young and masterbate and all the sudden my period is like 5 weeks late and I still haven't got it. I haven't had And sexual relation ship except for kissing am I pregnant???? Is this normal?!?!?
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replied March 13th, 2011
Alexis without sperm from a male coming into contact with your egg, you can not get pregnant. Have you come into contact with a male's sperm? Your period can become late or even just stop out of the blue. Please do actual research on the male & female reproductive organs and sex instead of relying on these forums. You need to educate yourself. A missed menstruation does not always mean pregnancy. For example, I am 35 yrs old. For the about 21-22 years of me having my period, it only came every 3 months. Being a virgin for most of that time, I never even worried about being pregnant. I hadn't had actual sexual intercourse with a man. The biggest difference in you and me is that I was fully aware of the reproductive system. And when I say education, I do not mean that I had "the birds & the bees" talk with my mother. Of course I did have the talk with her at 8 yrs old, but they also taught sexual education in my elementary school, health class in jr. high, and biology as well as health in high school. This did not make me curious to try sex but instead educated me on sex so much that I was fully aware of how things worked. I remained a virgin until I was in my 20s and in college.

Again, please do some TRUE research on sex. Learn the medical terms. Treat it like school. Ask your doctor or even another doctor if you are ashamed to ask. I'm saying this because honestly, having gone through sex therapy at 11 yrs old and understanding it at that age, I am amazed at how many women do not know this basic information. I've taken for granted all of the information I've been afforded.
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replied March 31st, 2011
I am really scared that i may be pregnant. My period is about a week late and its never been late before. My boyfriend and I were just messing around and he stuck his penis partway into my vagina. THis happened about 2 and a half weeks ago. We didnt actually have sex and he assures me that no sperm went into my vagina. But I am still very scared. Also, after I went to the bathroom there was a little bit of pink on the toilet paper. This happened twice. Is this spotting? And does this have anything to do with possibly being pregnant? My boyfriend has fingered me lately, does that have anything to do with it? Am I pregnant? I have been under alot of stress lately. Am I just being paranoid?
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