I have this zit kinda of thing its soft but then get hard some times, I thought it was a ingrown hair at first but it goes and comes back bigger, the doc didnt even look at it and said not to worry, but it hurst and is place is uncomfortable. so i read up and tried to pop it, bad idea i cleaned it put a hot cloth on it nothing happened so i stuck a needle inside it, it driped a drop of blood so i push harder the next time and when i pushed it it would ooze out lots of blood with nothing inside just blood, its stop when i stop pushing it together but its still so big, what is it? and what can i do next since my doctor could careless?