Joined: 27 Jul 2007 Posts: 71 Location: New York, United States
Lady or a Tramp? Posted: 03-24-08 16:05pm
Ok basically, from you guys, I want to
know how can you tell if a girl is someone
you can take home to mother or just a
"tramp" (to be polite) What qualites does
the girl have to have to be considered the
one you would take home to meet mom.
And another thing is I would like some
adivce/thoughts on this situation: Me and
my current boyfriend have known each other
since we were about 11-12 years old. Hes
been asking me out since we were in about
6th or 7th grade and I havent given him
the chance until now (11th grade) We've
been going together for 3 months now and
we only had sex 2 times. The first time
was when he took my virginity. One day we
were talking about sex and he said to me
(after I insinuated wanting to be intimate
again) that there comes a time in every
mans life when he realizes that sex isnt
everything and he learns to cool out a
bit. And for him this is that time. Also
how does a male feel when he takes a girls
virginity?
He's 17 yrs old - is that normal for him
to say?
And since hes been trying since we were
children, would I be considerd a Lady (one
he can take home to mom) and would his
feeling be genuine for me since he knows
my family etc (he also always talks about
us in the future like when we're older we
can do this or that or when we have
children together . . . and other things)
If you have any questions just ask. I hope
I was clear enough in my post - I just
want to hear some thoughts! Thanks
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ladyT02
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 04-08-08 23:31pm
you guys are way too young to be planning
out a future. yea its cute to talk like
your gonna be together for ever, i had one
boyfriend do that and my stupid self
believed him and he ended up screwing me
over bigtime. jus take care of yourself
and enjoy being young, dont rush into
things
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LadyKitten
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2007 Posts: 61 Location: ,
Posted: 04-10-08 08:03am
I can't say ladyT02 is wrong, however, my
cousin and her now husband have been
together since grade 10. They now have 3
kids together. Just because you're young
doesn't mean you don't know what love is
or anything. Yeah, it's true at that age
that you believe you are in love with no
matter who you are dating. Sometime
infatuation can feel like love, but you
guys have been friends for around 5 years
so it's not like you don't know each
other. And just because you've had sex
doesn't mean you are a tramp. To me a
tramp is someone that sleeps around.
Because he took your virginity doesn't
make you a tramp. And it's not like it's
written on your forehead that you're no
longer a virgin. If you guys are serious
enough, there's no reason why you can't
meet his parents and vice versa. I'm sure
they will love you too.
