Ok basically, from you guys, I want to know how can you tell if a girl is someone you can take home to mother or just a "tramp" (to be polite) What qualites does the girl have to have to be considered the one you would take home to meet mom.

And another thing is I would like some adivce/thoughts on this situation: Me and my current boyfriend have known each other since we were about 11-12 years old. Hes been asking me out since we were in about 6th or 7th grade and I havent given him the chance until now (11th grade) We've been going together for 3 months now and we only had sex 2 times. The first time was when he took my virginity. One day we were talking about sex and he said to me (after I insinuated wanting to be intimate again) that there comes a time in every mans life when he realizes that sex isnt everything and he learns to cool out a bit. And for him this is that time. Also how does a male feel when he takes a girls virginity?

He's 17 yrs old - is that normal for him to say?

And since hes been trying since we were children, would I be considerd a Lady (one he can take home to mom) and would his feeling be genuine for me since he knows my family etc (he also always talks about us in the future like when we're older we can do this or that or when we have children together . . . and other things)

If you have any questions just ask. I hope I was clear enough in my post - I just want to hear some thoughts! Thanks