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Lady or a Tramp? Posted: 03-24-08 16:03pm
Ok basically, from you guys, I want to
know how can you tell if a girl is someone
you can take home to mother or just a
"tramp" (to be polite) What qualites does
the girl have to have to be considered the
one you would take home to meet mom.
And another thing is I would like some
adivce/thoughts on this situation: Me and
my current boyfriend have known each other
since we were about 11-12 years old. Hes
been asking me out since we were in about
6th or 7th grade and I havent given him
the chance until now (11th grade) We've
been going together for 3 months now and
we only had sex 2 times. The first time
was when he took my virginity. One day we
were talking about sex and he said to me
(after I insinuated wanting to be intimate
again) that there comes a time in every
mans life when he realizes that sex isnt
everything and he learns to cool out a
bit. And for him this is that time. Also
how does a male feel when he takes a girls
virginity?
He's 17 yrs old - is that normal for him
to say?
And since hes been trying since we were
children, would I be considerd a Lady (one
he can take home to mom) and would his
feeling be genuine for me since he knows
my family etc (he also always talks about
us in the future like when we're older we
can do this or that or when we have
children together . . . and other things)
If you have any questions just ask. I hope
I was clear enough in my post - I just
want to hear some thoughts! Thanks
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jodie 16
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she doesnt have to Posted: 04-20-08 08:45am
She doesnt have to prove anything to your
mum to be quite frank.
if you love her then nothing else counts
qualities
No one is bettetr than anyone else
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Roberta777
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Larlen Posted: 05-03-08 20:36pm
It sounds to me like you genuinely care
for this person and he does for you but at
this point in time, he is freaking out
that you will want this to be a real
commitment.
Trust me on this one. Guys are way
younger than girls their own age and he is
probably talking himself into the belief
that you are going to nail him into a
commitment from now until the end of
time.
You have your whole life ahead of you.
Play it cool. Back off, let him come back
to your doorstep with some flowers in his
hand and let him be nice to you. And, to
your family.
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