Kegels and sexual performance Posted: 04-16-08 03:38am
okay here it is..... i know this gonna be
alot of questions! i wld like a serious
answer from someone because my sexual
performance in bed has been putting stress
on my life...PLZ!
Are Kegels Suppoed 2 make u cum Faster?
cuz i've been doin them for awhile and it
just seems like i am cuming faster then
normal?
How do i prevent this? Whats going on and
what do i do?
How do i know when to Squezze my PC
muscles? Right before i cum(shld i stop
and squezze it really hard and wait a
couple mins?) shld i just repeat that step
over and over?!
I have heard some stuff on reverse kegels
are they good? What are they useful for?
Shld i do that more then kegels? I just
want to know how do i stop from cuming to
fast?
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marvel
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Posted: 04-16-08 09:49am
Kegeling is different for everyone. From
my understanding, Kegeling strengthens the
PC muscles to either A) stop an orgasm or
B) retain semen so that you can possibly
have sex repeatedly. Am I right?
It would seem that you're having the
opposite effect. And, in fact, everyone's
reproductive system reacts differently to
kegeling, I'm sure (and so I've heard).
It's my understanding that you're supposed
to squeeze your PC muscles before orgasm.
I would try other techniques such as
breathing and mental exersizes. I find
them to be much more effective than
physical. Sexually, your body is putty in
someone else's hands (especially if it's
the right person), but you control the
mental side. Give it a shot. Look up
either Tantra OR Ujjayi Breathing. They're
good mental and physical activities that
can delay orgasm and make it more intense
when it does happen!
