Just as having sex with a penis won't make you lose your sex drive, or "feeling down there", neither will a vibrator. I hope that answers your question!

i agree with mstrombe. i have used a vibrator for several years. i still enjoy occasionally working with just "fingers alone" though.

you can't expect to use a vibrator and then switch to fingers right that minute and feel much from the fingers though. it's not going to decrease the level of feeling you have down there long-term, but you may get to the point that you don't like doing it without the vibe (let's face it, the vibe is intense, fun, minimal work, and it can be quick too). if you get a quiet vibe it can be pretty discrete too.

you sound like maybe your just a little embarrassed by the whole vibe thing. don't be. there are hundreds of ways for us girls to get off and the vibe is just one of them. embrace it and think of it as beginning to discover your body...nothing wrong with that, right?!?!

Just wanted to put out there!

This post was NOT from me.

I have a younger sister who obviously needed help and thought she couldn't come to me and came on here. What a nice sister?

So I think maybe I should comment on this so maybe if she does decide to come back on here on my lovely name making me seem a little odd lmao! She can see what I think.

First of all vibrators are fine to use Tess, I know its hard hearing this from me but girl... I have one too ha ha. I understand it's weird using it rather then having Mike around to please you. It's just not him and I completely understand. You still need to be pleased some how and if this is the way that makes you "Get off" Then you are golden.

Now using a vibrator then going to your finger to see if there is still feeling is just silly. Of course there wont be any feeling that second a little rub compared to something that is vibrating you! Its a big difference. Don't worry if you have any other trouble hun you know my number just call.

<3 p.s Please... Please... Don't post on my name! It makes me seem like a freak because I go from a 21 year old to a 18 year old! and I most certainly do not have another side of me lol!