My Girlfriend and I have sex about once or
twice a week at the most. I have no
health problems, and she doesn't either.
I have no problem getting an erection for
the first act of intercourse.
So here's the story...
We'll have sex, and I'll last about 15-20
minutes, and I just can't stand it after
that.. I HAVE to ejaculate. She is okay
with that, but as soon as I pull my condom
off, she's trying to put another on.
I lose my erection as soon as I cum, and
it takes it about 20-30 mins to come back
again. She gets royaly PISSED at me, and
treats me like crap about it. I tell her
that I cant help it..
How can I get my erection to come back..
or stay.... ? I need help!
Thanks!
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Truth_serum
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Mar 2008 Posts: 23 Location: Oxon Hill , MD
Posted: 05-08-08 14:45pm
Consult with a doctor. As a woman I
understand her frustration. She wants to
get hers to, be mindful of that. It is not
always about you, think about her too.
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blue1968
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2007 Posts: 14 Location: NC
Posted: 05-08-08 14:52pm
Yes i realize that, i do all that I can to
make her feel good, but It's just as
frustrating to me when I know I can't keep
on giving (and she's expecting it).
I've just turned 18... i should be in my
prime.. u know what i mean? I really hope
nothing's wrong with me. I do know this..
my penis is completely numb and swollen
after the first ejaculation. But it's
limp. I
really don't think i need viagra at 18??
... please tell me I don't.
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Biani
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2008 Posts: 157 Location: ,
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Posted: 05-08-08 15:02pm
ok guys. I think that it's TOTALLY NORMAL
to need at LEAST half an hour till you can
do it again. Hell, if you can do it again
after just half an hour that's GREAT!
I really think your girlfriend shouldn't
be upset with you... as long as you do
whatever you can to make her finish too.
You know.. you got hands, mouth, lol, if
you get what i mean. All isn't over just
because you finished already.
I think what you're describing here about
your performance is very reasonable and
normal, just don't leave her hanging! Make
sure she gets hers too.
And NO you don't need viagra, lol, you
sound perfectly normal. Well, at least as
far as i know. haha.
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xbostonx
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2008 Posts: 96 Location: Boston, MA
Posted: 05-09-08 13:38pm
for the most part most guys who stay hard
after ejaculation are porn stars or guys
who masturbated a lot and it takes a lot
of practice. My boyfriend can do it now
but it was from practice but i still have
to wait at least 15mins cuz he gets
sensitive. I also get sensitive after i
orgasm. if you need to wait 30 mins just
keep playing with ur girlfriend when your
done and then go at it again. hope this
helps.
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I
really don't think i need viagra at 18??
... please tell me I don't.
