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Q: just got dumped
asked by: sweet_mom on January 15th, 2009
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hey all
my bf just broke up with me a few days ago and i just today found out that i am pregnant.
he's coming over tonight but i don't know if i'm ready to tell him just yet.
i think we are going to try to work things out but i don't want him to think that it's only because of a new baby because it isn't. i love him a lot, he's the sweetest guy and we had talked about having kids before.
now i'm confused and don't really know what i should do.
should i tell him tonight or wait?
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Mabel
replied on January 15th, 2009
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Do whatever you feel is best for you. You will need to tell someone soon though, you are going to need medical treatment.
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proudmama
replied on January 15th, 2009
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hello
This a huge subject. If I were you I would tell you how you feel about him and then after that explain to him that you are pregnant. It wont be easy but he needs to know and maybe things will turn out for the best. Tell him that this baby is a blessing and a sign that you two are supposed to be together. But like the girl said above do what is best for you and your new addition! Congrats:)
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sweet_mom
replied on January 17th, 2009
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well I decided to wait
I just went to the doctor to have a check up and he did his own test which came up negative.
I'm not sure what to think, I thought false positives were rare, but I guess they're not too rare!
anyways, I am actually very happy with a negative!
I have one son already and I know that I am definitely not ready for another just yet.
I have been using protection but the doctor gave me a new prescription for birth control.
I don't really trust the birth control I was on before, it failed when I got pregnant with my son so I'm trying something new this time.

Thank you for your replies, this site is awesome for support!!
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19yearold
replied on January 17th, 2009
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don't tell him unless your positive but if I was you I'll tell him everything... but it's really up to you.
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