ok, im 17 and bisexual, and i have been
dating my bf for 1yr and a half, and i
love him alot. before i started dating
him, i thought i might be a lesbian, but
then i meet him and it was awhile since i
liked a guy so i asked him out cause i
knew he liked me too. before i started
dating him i had a crush on 2 girls, one
was a really good friend, we have been
friends since we were 11yrs old. almost a
year ago i found out she had a crush on me
too, but i was dating my bf and couldn't
do anything about it. and the other girl
was someone i didnt know as well but
really liked, and she is a lesbian. my
good friend i liked is trying to go out
with the other girl i had a crush on and i
am jealousy about this for some reason, i
want her to date me still, but why would
she, i have a bf. a few nights ago i had a
dream of her and i together, and have have
a few more during the past few months. i
really want to be with a girl, and
sometimes i do wonder what if i am a
lesbian, since i've never been with a girl
or had a gf before. my bf told me i could
have sex with a girl cause he knows i've
never been with one before, but i think he
said that cause he doesnt want to lose me
to a girl. but i really dont want to do
that, i would feel so bad like i cheated
on him even though he gave me persimmon to
do it. i dont know what to do, im so
confused. i want her, but i love him..
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homerx
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Posted: 09-12-08 17:13pm
follow your heart. If you don't feel
comfortable then don't be with her. To
thine own self be true...also, your very
young,I say dont settle down with any one
and have fun while your young...go out
with boys,girls,whatever and whoever you
want. Dont close any doors that you may
wish you had left open. Being bi can be
confusing especially when your young. So
go slow,take your time and be real...with
yourself and with those you care
about.Good luck.Hope that helped a
little.If we can do anything else or help
then let us know.
Peace and Love and Pride,
Homer
