Hello!
I've been looking around here a little and finally decided to register.
First: Why are you arguing semantics? The unborn is what it is whether or not you call it a baby, a child, or a fetus.
What exactly IS "it"?
1. Human. If you deny this, you're ignoring the scientific facts.
2. Alive. Again, biological fact.
You kill a human when you abort. Whether you consider it to be a person or not is your own business. But it is a human and it dies. It is not a developed human, but it is a human.
What is it not?
1. Independent. Depending on gestational stage.
That's about it. In many ways an early unborn is very different from a born or even a late-term. But the one key, the most important difference is that at a certain stage, the unborn goes from being incapable of being independent to being capable of this.
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Moving on:
Your right to control your body ends where someone else's body starts - the body of another person. Choosing to neglect a born child violates his bodily rights. He has a right to eat. If you have chosen to be his mother, then you have the responsibility to care for him. You have chosen to give your services to him until he is 18.