I've been in two Long relationships and am
in the process of divorce.Yes you will
still love him because your love is part
of who You are and has nothing to do with
him. As for happiness,you can't make
anyone happy and perhaps you married for
the wrong reasons.Happiness comes from
within and you are not responsible
ultimately for his happiness. 2 long term
relationships have shown me that,you
cannot change another persons decision to
be happy or un happy and he is ultimately
responsible for that.We are only to
support and encourage one another in Love
and be patient and understanding in
difficult times for one another.As for the
vehicle,in all fairness,he bought the car
perhaps assuming you were in the marriage
as his wife and as you may desire to
divorce him,he is giving you the option of
putting the vehicle in your own name which
is a reasonable request even though you
don't see it that way.He should not have
to pay for a vehicle for a woman who does
not want to stay with him.That is the
reason he bought it for you.Since you are
in school and working full time ,and only
married for just two years,perhaps you
were or have been so preoccupied with all
the school work and job,school ,that you
made little time for the relationshp? This
seems like a good possibility.Sometimes
there is so much pressure to achieve so
much when you are young,you forget that
good relationships are not always about
fun,sometimes,they take work and sacrifice
and without that,there is no
relationship,One option may be You might
want to consider,holding on awhile longer
to finish your college degree,attend
counseling with him, and if
neccesary,ditch the part time job
temporarily for the relationship and hang
in there till you have your degree.If
nothing improves,You will be able to get a
better job and go it on your own and get
your own car.Life is hard and no one ever
said it would be easy but every
relationship has tradeoffs.The cost of
love is not cheap but in the long run,It
is worth it.Love is patient and if you are
not,you will need it to endure the
difficulties of life.That is a lesson we
all need to aquire and the sooner the
better to avoid frustration..Hope this may
bring you some
insight.....Rose...........
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