I know I am in a crazy relationship but is it abusive am I the problem or am I "phsyco" like my boyfriend says? Me and my man have been together for 4 years the first 2 on and off, and the past 2 straight with a lot of 2 day break ups. Begining of our relationship I wasnt into him, now I am dedicated in every way to him laundry,cook,buy him things,clean,stay home and dont go out for him everything. He knows hes got me, when he messes with me and breaks up with me I go crazy sometmes crying hysterical, because the break up will be because hes accusing me of cheating like yestrerday accused me of cheathing and I did nothing of the sort impossible. He dragged this on for the whole day texting me I was a wh**e, get out of his life, then called me at night time and said do you want to go get something to eat? I said but we just fought what happened whats going on/then hell hang up on me, saying just drop it, see this is why I cant be with you your crazy just drop it. So of course I go back to him and pick him up to go eat and I mention the fight and he says Im going home I dont want to talk about it, wer done its over. What is the problem am I crazy or is he. BTW THIS HAPPENS A LOT!!!! it happened 4 days ago he broke up with me for a few hours asked for his stuff back then said he didnt want it back and then called 2 hours later saying....I want this relationship to work I love you. WHAT IS GOING ON!