|
Etipus
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2008
Posts: 11
|
is she pregnant?
Posted: 06-15-08 19:54pm
|
|
|
|
Im wondering if my girlfriend is pregnant.
we have unprotected sex alot so i cant say
when it might of happend. she had her
period but it was light and only lasted a
couple of days. then about 3-5 days later
she had some blood a little amount. she is
feling dizzy alot stomach aches she threw
up once she has been eating alot more than
usual (every few hours she is hungry) and
some crazy things and shes been sleeping
alot. we are only 17 but weve been dating
for two years and i really do love her so
im not going anywhere im going to be there
for her no matter what weve already made
plans that we can move to my friends house
and i have a career in the military
planned (im doing jrotc so i can go in at
2 ranks higher to start) but im just
wondering is she pregnant.
|
|
|
|
|
 |
AyaMiyaki
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2006
Posts: 8502
Location: Floating on a cloud, United States
Thanks: 213
Thanked:15
|
Posted: 06-15-08 19:57pm
|
|
|
|
|
Bleeding is not a symptom of pregnancy.
However, having unprotected sex is not
smart. She WILL end up pregnant if you
continue. Having a career plan is good,
but having a career is better. Use condoms
until your career is established. Protect
her AND yourself from becoming parents
before you're ready.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Etipus
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2008
Posts: 11
|
Posted: 06-15-08 20:19pm
|
|
|
|
|
what about this though???
Implantation Bleeding
Implantation bleeding can cause you some
confusion when you are unsure whether or
not you are pregnant. It is not always
easy to tell what is break through
bleeding, or spotting between periods, and
what is actually implantation spotting.
The difference between period and
implantation bleeding is that implantation
bleeding occurs as a result of the embryo
burrowing into your endometrium. However,
because implantation spotting usually
occurs right around the time you would be
expecting your period, it is easy to
mistake it for your period or as
breakthrough bleeding.
|
|
|
|
|
|
AyaMiyaki
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2006
Posts: 8502
Location: Floating on a cloud, United States
Thanks: 213
Thanked:15
|
Posted: 06-15-08 20:24pm
|
|
|
|
|
You said she had a light period. Then she
had bleeding after her period. That's not
implantation bleeding - that's a period
with spotting afterward.
Use condoms please.
|
|
|
|
|
|
manuftw82
Supporter
Joined: 02 Dec 2007
Posts: 368
Location: Vestal/LI, NY USA
Thanks: 7
Thanked:3
|
Posted: 06-16-08 06:05am
|
|
|
|
|
I know a lot of people who have bled or
spotted during their pregnancies. I would
definitely have her take a test ASAP.
Anytime there is unprotected sex there is
a chance of pregnancy.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Etipus
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2008
Posts: 11
|
Posted: 06-16-08 12:01pm
|
|
|
|
|
yeah she is going to take a test as soon
as she gets home today shes been in
california visiting her family for the
last week and a half so she told me she
would take one as soon as she got home and
then she will call me and tell me what it
says only problem is she got home 3 hours
ago and she hasnt talked to me since she
landed in the airport 4 hours ago
|
|
|
|
|
|
Mabel
Moderator
Joined: 09 Mar 2006
Posts: 8947
Location: Grinning like a Cheshire Cat,
Thanks: 179
Thanked:198
|
Posted: 06-16-08 12:21pm
|
|
|
|
|
Why are you having a lot of unprotected
sex? Are you two trying to get pregnant?
Why aren't you using birth control to
prevent this?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Etipus
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2008
Posts: 11
|
Posted: 06-16-08 12:27pm
|
|
|
|
|
please dont preach to me you dont think i
know that i know ive been stupid all im
asking to know is the answer to my
questions not to be told something that i
already know
sorry if that sound mean im not trying to
sound mean if i was saying it inperson it
wouldnt sound mean promise 
|
|
|
|
|
|
Mabel
Moderator
Joined: 09 Mar 2006
Posts: 8947
Location: Grinning like a Cheshire Cat,
Thanks: 179
Thanked:198
|
Posted: 06-16-08 12:58pm
|
|
|
|
|
In no way was I intending to sound
'preachy'. This is something you already
know. As well as already knowing the only
answer to your question is to take a
pregnancy test.
In the future, however, you and your
girlfriend should look into getting birth
control. Condoms and pills are much more
inexpensive than the worry you are feeling
right now - and they don't even compare to
the expense of a child.
Good luck.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Etipus
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2008
Posts: 11
|
Posted: 06-16-08 13:15pm
|
|
|
|
|
ty a ton you made me feel alot better i do
not know how but you did so thank you
i still havent herd from her and its been
4 hours which is not like her were
normally talking 24/7 or texting when were
not talking were going to get birth
control this week if shes not pregnant
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Reptar
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2007
Posts: 389
Thanks: 44
Thanked:13
|
Posted: 06-16-08 17:11pm
|
|
|
|
|
Good luck with everything, but seriously,
like Ingi said, if you're not trying to
get pregnant, get some protection. Knowing
that you're safe makes the sex ten times
better and you don't have to worry like
this. Take care and keep us updated.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Etipus
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2008
Posts: 11
|
Posted: 06-16-08 17:41pm
|
|
|
|
|
yeah she took a test just now and it says
shes not but shes still havingdizzyness
and some other sypmtoms so another
tomorrow and were getting bc this week ty
guys
|
|
|
|
|
|
Mabel
Moderator
Joined: 09 Mar 2006
Posts: 8947
Location: Grinning like a Cheshire Cat,
Thanks: 179
Thanked:198
|
Posted: 06-16-08 17:51pm
|
|
|
|
|
| Etipus
wrote: | | yeah she took a test just
now and it says shes not but shes still
havingdizzyness and some other sypmtoms so
another tomorrow and were getting bc this
week ty guys |
Symptoms can indicate something else other
than pregnancy. She might be ill. She
might not be getting enough to eat. Her
blood sugar could be low. There are
literally hundreds of other things
dizziness could be attributed to.
Condoms and birth control pills are free
or very cheap at Planned Parenthood. They
are a confidential service, neither of
your parents will know.
I'm glad her test is negative!
|
|
|
|
|
Users who thank Mabel for this post:
Reptar
|
