I am newly married. I we both r happy with our sexual life.But i want to have a oral sex with my wife.Is it safe? how to communicate her that i want to perform the oral sex?is it necessaty to communicate her?If i directly perform the task will she accept it?pls advice me.
Ha Ha PumpkinHead, you will have to explain that logic. She will leave him if he pleases her? Oral sex is one of the great joys for a woman. Most women will orgasm quite easy from oral sex. So please explain why she will leave him!!
I'd try something like "Hey <fill in the name of the woman you love>, I'd really like to try going down on you and see how it works out for us, what do you think?". This act requires no sneaking or conspiracy, she's either game or she isn't.
I am 43 years old and I have an oral fixation, I have never found the need to "communicate" my desire to pleasure my woman orally, best results I have found would be a lot of foreplay, touching kissing and rubbing. Surprise her by doing it, neither of you will regret it.