ok i was a virgin he stuck one finger in my vigina and it hurt and his penis is 3 fingers wide and he got it inside me and i bled every when he did and alot for 3 or 4 days and it hurt to walk and 1 week later we tryed again cause we though i wouldnt be so tight i went back to the same tightness is that bad and how can i be losser down there
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If it was your first time intercourse, then the bleeding that you describe could have been due to hymen rupture and should subsided within 48-72 hours time. Vaginal tone can take some time to relax (the tone and tightness becomes laxed after regular intercourse). Having adequate foreplay and lubrication helps relaxing the vaginal tightness. Visit your doctor/gynecologist for further evaluation and assistance and rule out possibilities like vaginismus, vulvodynia, vaginal spasm, etc.
Dont worry, Dr. Madhumita is right. Its quite natural and the tightness of vagina is very important in sexual relationship. It increases the pleassure of your partner. Always do forplay before entering penis. You should examine that your vagina is wet enough to start an intercourse.Tell your partner to lick your clitoris for 20 minuts and fnger your vagina and anal area at the same time. you will get aroused in minutes. then start a good healthy sexual intercourse.
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