Relationships and Marriage Forum - is my gf still in love with her ex?

me and my girlfriend are open and understanding, well i hope we are beacuse ive noticed that in conversation her ex boyfriend keeps coming up alot and i dont know why.

i mean from what she tells me they were quiet serious but one day her ex turned round and said he didn't love her any more. so it was over.

they haven't been together for about a year even though they still talk and meet up. :s im fine with it im not that controlling. at least she tells me she meets him well some times other times i find out from other sources.

i love my girlfriend ad when i said it to her for the first time it took allot and then she said and i quote "you mended a broken heart" this was strange because she claims to be completely over him

i duno what to do weather to confront her about it or give her the "me or him" question i dont want to do that

id just like you opinion on this thanks

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Stillstanding

replied on August 5th, 2008

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is my gf still in love with her ex

You are right. It is either you or him. I think what she is doing is disrepectful toward you. Can you trust her with him? I hate to say it but I doubt it. What would she say if you met up with one of your old girlfriends? I wouldn't get upset with her or make any demands. If I were you I'd start dating around. Maybe you will find someone who actually shows you some respect. Call me old fashion but if she is serious about you then I really don't think what she is doing is right. Obviously it is bothering you.

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hotlipz

replied on August 27th, 2008

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i had my fair share of that

yes i agree! because i did that before.... i said nothing happens, were just hangging out but there is something happening... even if the girl could be trusted, the guy can't. I had a difficult time. I was both dependent of the two because i knew they are both there. Yes i was selfish but i think it would be better if you would tell ur girl on how u feel about the situation now. Things can go bad but at least she knows that ur uneasy about it.

jona_vibrator

replied on September 25th, 2008

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ex boyfriend

That's not right because they meet without you. It's OK for me if my bf still meeting with his ex girlfriend, as long as I accompany him when meeting his ex girlfriend. I guess, she still love her ex boyfriend, you confront her to make it clear. That's the best way for you to do.

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