My girlfriend and I had been dating for a year and a half at the time she broke up with me. She said that her reason was that I'd become physically abusive. Anyone who has ever met me, knows that I am not violent or mean in any way so it is very hard to believe this reason. We had one argument where she tried to run away from the situation. I tried to give her a hug and ask her not to leave. In the heat of the situation, I pulled her back. I know that it probably would have been more wise to let her leave and cool off, but I didn't want this argument to end without resolution. I believe this is where she gets her claim. At the time, I was planning on proposing shortly after. She broke up with me two weeks after that event. It has been about six weeks since then. I'm still having a hard time dealing with this, but what hasn't made it any easier is the fact that she has been trying to contact me in various ways. The last time she told me she misses me and thinks about me. She wanted all of the plans that we'd talked about for the future. But she also says that she doesn't know how to look past that night that I "pushed" her. I feel like her emotions still show that she cares but I don't see that she wants us back together as much as I do.