pfftt..that would annoy me...when I date someone i date to look for the man i'm gonna marry..and if that guy wants to sit around on his butt while i go out and bust mine..HUH UH hunny that aint gonna work! I like being independant and having my own job but I also wanna know that I'm not gonna be the only one supporting the family when we have one..that just sounds like laziness to me and thats not ok...my boyfriend has a GREAT work ethic..he's been at his job for a little over a year, started out at $8.50 and is now getting $15 an hour..hes worked his way up and works really hard..sometimes i wish he didn't work as much as he did! But im glad he's independent like that and not getting handouts from his parents..somehow he manages to afford an apartment a car and ME of course haha..jk, but...yea...if I were you I would talk to him about this..issue...bc that really would drive me crazy