Yes I think so, being assertive is the starting point.

Yes, we can change what comes in our life by controlling our Mind (not to be confused with the brain, the organ). If we thought nothing at all, ever, nothing would ever happen! So by applying the principles of Quantum Mind Power, you can create and experience anything you choose. It sounds outrageous, but it really is true. You must first take responsibility for (by beginning to become conscious of) what you do currently, more specifically what you think of, and mostly unconsciously. It's not that you don't create what you want, it's that you often create exactly what you don't want, proportionate to the energy you give it, unconsciously. Wow! Check out the site for a deeper look at this. It takes some time to wrap your head around it, but when you do… you will be a totally new person!