Is it masturbation? She's just 6 y/o.

motherofonelovelygirl,

She is just doing the natural exploration of her body. Masturbation is not harmful. However, if you freak out, then she may too. You should explain that it is okay for her to explore her body, but that it is a private thing. You need to explain the boundaries, that it is not proper to do it in front of other people. She is old enough to understand this (a two year old would not be old enough to understand). You might also tell her that if she uses sharp, pointed objects, she might hurt herself. But, it is quite normal for children to use pillows, stuffed toys, the edge of the bed, etc to rub up against.

If you google "childhood masturbation" there are several links to very good sites. The University of Michigan has an excellent article on the subject, with several frequently asked questions. But, there are also many other equally good sites.


Again, she is just exploring her body.

Thank you so much! I really appreciate your comments/replies. Yeah, maybe it is the right thing, talk it over with her. I was just afraid in the beginning because I'm not used to seeing that and true enough children these days are really advanced. Good thing I discovered this site. God bless to both of you