Okay, so lately I've been parinoid that my BF is purposely trying to get me pregnant. Certain things he says makes alarms go off in my head. I love him very much and I would totally marry him and have his kids one day, but now is not that day.
So first, we were in the middle of having sex and he kinda stops and looks at me in the eyes and in the most serious way he says "I wanna have a baby with you. I think our baby would be so beautiful." I didn't say anything I was in such shock.
Then, once after we just finished having sex he said "watch you be pregnant now."
And most recently, (as in last night) he told me that he had a dream that I was pregnant. And the way he said it made me feel like he was secretly hoping that I really was pregnant.
And when we have sex I feel like he trys really hard to cum inside me.
He knows I'm on some really powerful birthcontrol. It's Implanon, and it's suppose to last for 3 years. And now he's got me parinoid that I might actually be pregnant. I feel bloated, I have horrible cramps which I never have and I feel sick like I wanna puke.
It's true that no birth control at all will be 100% effective except not having sex. Most are only 97%. It's also true that no one WANTS their first (or any kid) to be illegitimate. If you really love him, and yeah I think he is trying really hard to get you pregnant, I would ask him to THINK about what he really wants. If he does want a baby (weather you do or not) TELL him you want to be married first. If he pops the question right there, go for it! You don't have to have a baby right away, you can wait a long time if you feel like it, but at least if it does slip past your birth control you'll know for sure you're covered. You should also tell him everything, like that you wont stop using birth control, even if you're married, right away, but he can go on and keep trying to "slip one past the goalie" as my husband used to say. That way you both have a shot at what you want (even if his is a bit slimmer than yours). If you are worried about being pregnant NOW. All you can do is wait and see. If you miss your period (or in 3 weeks if you don't have one... so lucky) take a EPT pregnancy test. If it is positive (less likely but possible) GET OFF THE BIRTH CONTROL IMMEDIATELY! Any hormones can really screw up a developing baby bad. Don't stress too much! It is a 3 in 100 chance that you are pregnant and even less than that because of how any and all woman's cycles work.