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Q: is he hurting?
asked by: EroticBbi on October 5th, 2009
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heya!

well i met this guy about 3 months ago now and he was a right joker and used all the chat up lines i can think of! i met him through a friend at work and she said he says the same to everyone so not to take it to seriously and plus he only goes for younger girls 15/16 and he wouldnt do anything he didn't want to hes very head strong so i didn't then i went out with her again and he was the same as before chatting me up and asking me "when i wanted to go and roll around naked" which i thought was kinda funny but anyway he gave me his number and took mine then he said we should go get to no eachother better! my mate said its just a joke call his bluf so i did i said ok and got in his car and he drove off and was actually a sweet guy he was saying we dont need to do anything you no? just have a chat if you like so we just chatted and had a little kiss and then he took me home i didnt speak to him for about 3 weeks after that as i didn't go back out with my friend then i thought i'd text him wishing him a great holiday as he told me he was going when we last chatted he reply "thanks darling aint spoke in a while hope your ok? fancy some good bye sex? xxxx " i replied no welcome sex is much better as i got abit scared! then i didnt hear anything from him until about 4/5 days later he texted me saying "he couldnt wait to get back to see me for that welcome back sex xxxx" and i just replied oh cool when you back and he replied 2 days i didnt reply and 2 days later i got a text saying "im back in the UK babe!! miss me? so that sex? Wink xxxxx " i replied "im working cant see you until saturday" then saturday came and he started texting me in the day asking me if i wanted to go and watch a film before going out that night i replied no as again i got abit scared (i dont have much exp with guys thats why i get scared) then it came to the evening i went to my friends and got ready and went into town and he text me saying "let me no when your in so&so and i'll meet you there? xxx" i never replied as i was rather drunk but later on in the evening i had a call from him saying he was looking for me so i told him where i was and he met me outside the club we kissed for ages and he kept saying we going to go back to mine and i kept replying no if you want me that much your come back to where i am staying and he said look i aint going to lie to you i do like you but we are going to mine then i walked off and said no you can come to mine if you want me really then he ran up to me and held my hand and said come on then so i got my mates and we all went home we slept together and in the morning i took him home and he kissed me and said speak soon ok? then i didnt hear from him for about 4 weeks so i thought ok he used me end of one night stand blah blah then my friend asked me around her boyfriends house but i said no due to knowing this guy would be there she kept saying he wouldnt but i still didn't go later i got a text to say that he was there and was asking after me the next day she came in to work and said he wasnt to happy as when she got in the door her boyfriend asked if i was joining them and the guy said oh yeah **** off its going to be akward between us and she replied no it wont she has got back with her ex boyfriend now she dont want you and he replied oh well hes welcome to her and got all funny and my friend had to tell him to get off his high horse and he left since then he rang me and told me i was a weekend girl for prank calling him which i havent but he seems to think its me because it sounds like one of my mates which he dont no and he has been very nasty to me and asked me to leave him alone which i was doing but i would seriously like to give it ago but now im starting to think he hates me as he doesnt want to speak to me and the things hes been saying do you think hes upset about the whole back with my ex thing? because im not with my ex at all! i do like him alot but i dont want to make a fool out of myself so i dont want to tell my friend because she will blab! i just want to no if you think hes hurting or seriously doesnt like me
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J3nnyuk
replied on October 6th, 2009
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ooh this ones tough because Hun the way you portray him in your post is a bit of a big head, you know like oh i can get anyone sort of thing so am not sure but there must of been a reason for him saying those comments to your friend...i mean if he really liked you and he wasnt fooling around with you then why wouldnt he contact you in 4 weeks. My thoughts on this is that he did like you but wasn't sure whether you felt the same so he didnt contact you maybe hoping you would contact him...then you didnt so perhaps he thought that you didnt wanna know so then when your best friend said bout you being back together with your ex he said that stuff to try take the focus off him being gutted....that or he is just a player who is not worth your time and energy hun....jenny
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