Is going through an abortion really quickly better or worst? (Page 1)

Hey! Before I answer.. just want to know if you have or haven't gotten one, OK?
Msg me!

Abortion procedures are easier the earlier in the pregnancy they are done. After a certain point many doctors will not carry out an abortion, as it can be a very difficult and complicated proceedure, and also because after a certain point (around 21 weeks) the fetus is viable and could survive on it's own.

It is an important decision only you can make, although if you are going to have an abortion, you should get it done as soon as possible, as it will only become mentally and physically more difficult to do the longer you leave it.

I wish you all the best and good luck.
Grey.

Well it's taken forever to get a response out of you guys and yea I got it done. I'm going in tomorrow too.

I don't know why no-one else replied. I've only just replied because I've had no access to the internet for three weeks.

How did it go? How do you feel about it?

not good I guess

a lot of complications and stuff

but I'm going to hang in there

i don't know about anyone else, but I just signed up the day i replied to you. sorry. continue to hang in there.

Did they offer you post-abortion counselling? They often do, if they feel you would benefit from it. You don't have to go through this on your own, if you feel you need any help or support, please speak to them about it, they can help you deal with the emotional side of it, and come to terms with everything.
You can get through this, and all the best to you!
Good luck!
Grey

yea I just don't want to talk about it I want to just get on with my life have my kid and just forget this ever happened but thanx for the advice

well at leat I can have more kids with another guy then

I'm confused. Did you have an abortion?

And I completely understand, sometimes talking doesn't help and whatever helps us deal with things is what works!
I was just making sure that you aware that they are there if ever you feel you DO need them, but if you are dealing with it ok yourself then that's brilliant.
All the best and good luck!
Grey

yea I already said I did a lot of complications from it justthe physical side to it but I'm alright.

Ahh, I see.
All the best and take care!
Grey

You'll never regret giving birth. My mom was raped by 8 men and doesn't regret saving my life.
Look at pics of 4month babies. You can see your baby.
Be a hero save a life and give that life a home with someone who can't have that joy. Don't destroy a life.

You can count the seeds in an apple but you can't count the apples in a seed. You have no idea how many people you are killing when you kill one baby.
I have sons and grandsons that my mom saved because of letting me live.

God bless you to know the truth

Honestly, I believe if you are woman enough to lay down and have sex with whoever then you should grow up and be woman enough to have the baby. Wether or not you keep it or give it up for adoption. This is coming from someone who has been trying for 5 years to get pregnant and it is just not working. I believe there is only one reason to contimplate abotion and that is if it is going to harm the mother and/or the baby and then I believe I would still have it. I think it is sorry when a young girl gets pregnant and then just aborts it like its a frozen program on a computer.


Little girls.... GROW UP... keep your pants on and use the brain that God had the courtasy to put in your heads.

I understand that you feel anger towards women who have the choice to get pregnant and then throw it away, but don't even go there. You will never know what it is like to have to make the decision and it is something that we have to live with the rest of our lives. It in no way compares to getting rid of "a frozen program on a computer". I guess since I made the mistake of believing my ex boyfriends lies for a second time and allowing him to be irresponsible and get me pregnant again, I should put my health (pregnancy would be high risk) and my son's wellbeing to the side and have this baby simply because some people disagree with my decision. There are a lot more factors than you could understand that go into making the decision, some people have other children depending on them as well.

It meant a lot to get an abortion. No one was even on my side you've never been a pregnant teen so don't even try it.

Don't do it. I am a pregnect teen too and i thought about it too. But when you look at pictures who kills the baby in abortion, i cry. I can't have a kid right now, i am graduating this year and i want to go to college so i am giving it up for adoption..you should do the same

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