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Q: irritable towards husband wich may result in a failed marriage
asked by: peachykee on May 28th, 2009
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i know we all have hormones that we cant control but mine seem to be inbalanced before i start and after i get off my period. Its causing problems for my marriage. I work 5 days a week getting up between 5 and 6 o clock, and i think my husband thinks i have done something bad or i dont love him anymore. But i do more than anything, I have tried explaining to him that its just a natural thing; is it? I come home and im quiet and he gets on my nerves easily (sometimes), and then he harrases me about having an attitude and im afraid its going to cause are marriage to fail. If anyone has any suggestions to my topic please feel free to wright. and thank you, And may god bless you all.
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deteragram
replied on May 29th, 2009
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Have you always been like this or has it only occured recently?
It sounds like you may have PMDD, Premenstrual dysphoric disorder. From what I understand, some women have a sensitivity to hormonal changes that can cause moodiness and many other symptoms. You may want to speak to your doctor or gynecologist about this problem.
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kdlee
replied on June 1st, 2009
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I agree..You may need to be on medication..Tell your husband that you are going to the doctor to see what you can find out..Keep him informed..Maybe he isn't harrasing but asking-maybe he's scared soemting is wrong..I just ask that you never assume and always talk to him..Remembering you already know you are stressing and your explanantion or way of explaining maynot be perceived as the nicest way..With that in mind talk about this when it's not happening..

I hope you get your answers honey..kd
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sarahrocky1
replied on June 4th, 2009
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I have been acting the same way towards my husband, we got married in November but have been living together for over 3 years and I have never acted so irritable in all of my life! I snap and get aggrevated with any little thing he does. I do think its natural and knowing that your doing it is half the battle! What I have done thats really helped me out the past cpl of months is everytime Im about to say something negative I just replace it with "I Love You!" When I get home I do something for him even if its something small like fix him a plate or rub his shoulders, or make him a lunch for work the nxt day. Also try telling him how bad you feel and how sorry you are while making passionate love! The next morning will be like a fresh start! Good Luck!
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ServiceU
replied on June 8th, 2009
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i used to be moody two weeks out of the month. i remember i argued at my ex and he said "are you on your period" and i just laughed inside b/c he was right.
it's hard if you have a stressful job, maybe kids in your life, and in a relationship. some people can get burned out fast.
but i agree with you trying to get medication. even if you get on birth controls it's suppose to balance your hormones. be persistant with your doctor, i hear a lot of people saying their doctor shoe them away.
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upindust
replied on June 25th, 2009
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maybe you have PMDD you know PMS on crack.. the commercials say that it's pms only to the extreme that it is messing with your daily life.
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ServiceU
replied on June 25th, 2009
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that's a thought! i think she should see a doctor so they can figure out what's going on with her. because it maybe something deeper than PMS.
make your doctor listen to you, because sometimes they push you to the side.
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