I have two issues at the moment, lets start with the one that happened first. I was 12 when I started my period, and i used to be so regular I could have marked the days by it, then right around when i turned 16 i started getting a period ever six months. When it finally would come, it would be a normal five day period, no additional pain nothing. I went to the Obgyn and I don't have cancer or anything like that, and she put me on birth control and said that would take care of everything.

Well it did, i started getting my period back but it also made me gain weight, break out, very angry, and so I went off of it and I am back to a period every six months.

I try to talk to my friends about it but they all just think its awesome that I don't have a period all the time. I'm afraid I won't be able to have kids.

This leads me to my second problem. I've only had sex a handful of times and have never hit the big O vaginally, the first time hurt of course but every time after that it just feels like they are rubbing something inside of there that doesn't feel good, it feels uncomfortable like the way I feel things are off or something. I've tried all sorts of different positions and I've had sex with two different men so it can't be that person because with each of them it felt the same way.

I wonder if this happens to other women or just me, and if I'm also one of those girls that will never get an orgasm during sex.

Any thoughts or personal stories would be greatly appreciated.