Involuntary Sexual signals

To whom this may concern,

I am a 25-year old woman without any intercourse experience but a high sexual drive, who have been experiencing an in ability to control my sexual eye-signals. I involuntarily send people I am talking to signals that I am sexually interested in them. Most people (acquaintances, close friends and family members) react to the signals I am sending, and I thus start behaving (non-verbally) less than naturally because I feel uncomfortable. I have been experiencing this with females and males and I do not consider myself bisexual or homosexual. It thus seems that I send these signals to anyone whom I feel emotionally attracted to without having any inner desire to have sex or any kind of physical contact! When I have sent these signals to a person I am unable to stop my less than normal non-verbal behaviour no matter how hard I try distract or change my thoughts and thus behaviour! These signals can occur at any situation, and very suddenly! My problem is that I find it so uncomfortable that I tend to avoid seeing the people to whom I have sent these signals, as I am afraid I will send these less than appropriate signals again (which I often do, as I know that they know what I must have been thinking when I sent the sexual eye-contact-signal in the first place)!! I would really like it to get it under control, so that I do not need to deal with the consequences of it anymore!!

In addition, I have never had intercourse, and only had very few intimate sexual experiences (thus intimate relationships), as I find it hard to find someone whom I feel emotionally comfortable with and sexually attracted to. And with out this combination, I don’t feel that I can give myself fully to someone else.

I hope someone has some advice!
Thanks
ISS