Okay, Beebobee:
I think you are making too much out of this. If your bf says you look normal, then the chances are nothing is wrong. If the cyst is bothering you, go to a doctor and get it checked out. Have you shown the cyst to your gyn or asked about your clitoris?
On the other thing, if you were more manly, wouldn't you have MORE hair on your body, especially pubic hair and male pattern hair? I know you are scared of finding out you might have signs of hermaphroditism, but it could just be a hormonal imbalance and easily fixed with medication.
Best to make sure everything is good medically before you start worrying about how things look. Most of all, don't try to diagnose yourself. It's normal to freak out a little with changes in your body, but the truth about your condition should calm your fears. Don't believe anything until you visit a doctor.