My husband and I are into really kinky things in bed, and we both like the idea of putting large objects into my vagina and things of that sort. We haven't done any of these things yet, it's a big fantasy though. But I get scared because I don't want it to effect the size of my vagina, and make it .... well.... for lack of a better word... look gross. Would that ever happen??? Please help!!!
It could happen. Going slow and gradually increasing the size of things you use can lessen the chances of this and allow you to decide whether or not to stop, remain at that size or move on to something larger.
If you decide to move forward with this fetish you need to make sure you use ONLY products made specifically for this purpose. No household objects. If you use anything other than a sex toy you could cut, scratch or otherwise harm yourself. And always use plenty of lubricant.