1. go to the herniabible dot com and look up their core strengthening exercises to help firm up the area.
2. you can make it get larger faster if you do strenuous weight lifting or very aggressive exercises. light stretching is okay, dancing should be fine, unless you are lifting people.
3. keep stools soft with either more fiber, citrucel or magnesium therapy at nights. can also do some prune juice just before bed.
4. sex is okay, just don't be lifting your partner for some he-man sex move.
5. people do wait. if you have no bulge where the hernia is always staying out, then it would be relatively safe to wait and shop around for a HERNIA SPECIALIST, skip the general surgeon.
6. look for it to be popping out more often and more importantly, popping out and you can't gently coax it back into your body. keep an eye on your scrotum that it isn't twice it's size all of a sudden. some hernias can silently slip into your scrotum and enlarge it. of course, if you have excruciating pain all of a sudden, that needs attention.