Hello, I am desperate to find some answers and I am hoping this forum will help. My boyfriend has been showing signs of some type of mental issue. When he gets stressed out, he has an urgent need to poo and often he cannot hold it, sometimes he even has accidents. In addition, he has pain in the back of his neck and his legs, he sweats and his right hand twitches. During these episodes, he is incoherent and often doesn't understand when people talk to him. On several occasions, he disappears for hours at a time with no explanation. He doesn't answer his phone for hours and then suddenly appears. He says he has just been walking around for hours. When he comes back from these disappearing episodes, he eyes look glazed and he appears incoherent, similar to the episodes I witness. He is under alot of stress and I want to believe that this is his way of reacting. But another part of me doesn't know if he is just making this up. I am wondering if anyone else has had these symptoms, especially the dissapearing. He has even left me at places, and just dissapeared. After my anger subsides and I ask him where he has been, he says that he flipped out and was just walking around for hours. It is so bizarre. Please give me some input.