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I just started dating a very tall young man who I''''''''ve known for quite sometime, and who I REALLY like. Recently as we fooled around (though we haven''''t had sex yet), I got to see and touch his 10 inch long penis. Seeing it up close was very intimidating. I am not at all a virgin, but that is definitely the biggest penis I have ever seen in person.
I''ve read that the vagina will stretch to accommodate most penises, but I am only 5 feet tall!! Will my vagina be able to accommodate a penis that large without serious damage?
I really, really like this guy- but I don''''''''t wanna be in a relationship with someone that I can''''t have sex with. I don''''''''t want his penis to be the deal-breaker with this great guy. Please advise.
If he''s radically larger than previous lovers you could very likely feel some discomfort or pain initially but as people are fond of pointing out your vagina stretches to birth a human being. A 10" penis won''t kill you. I''d suggest you try sex on top the first few times until you grow accustomned to his size. Use a lot of lubricant and rather than dreading the possible pain look forward to the possibility to intense pleasures.
Remember length vs. width issues. As long as the WIDTH wont hurt you, or do you think that is too much? If the width is ok just make sure its not going in too DEEP if your not relaxed enough to handle that depth...
let us know how it goes. is he a cool enough guy to not just want to ram it in...? if so than he passes the test and Id say go for it slow and see. And WOLF's advice is the right attitude id say, but id say if it really is hurting you shouldnt just keep going... thats just my thoughts.
Infogirl, how do you know that his penis is 10 inches long, did he tell you that his penis is 10 inches long, or did you have a measuring rule to measure it for yourself? However, lets say it is 10 inches long anyway; there are women who are having babies weights 10 pounds and evem more and the vaginas will stretch to accommodate it!!
I'm pretty much sure that his 10 inch penis weights, by far less than 10 pounds! Go ahead and take it, in a few more months, you will be wanting a 15 incher!
That's about all I have to say!!!!
NO, HES WRONG. IF YOU ARE A VIRGIN, SEX WILL DIENFINETLY HURT FOR THE FIRST TIME AND YOU WILL BLEED, ESPECAILLY IF HE DOESNT SEXUALLY AROUSE YOU THE RIGHT WAY. HE WILL NEED TO LEARN HOW TO SEXUALLY AROUSE U IN ORDER FOR U TO BECOME RELAXED AND HOT DOWN THERE...SO THAT YOU CAN HANDLE IT AND SEXUAL INTERCOURSE WITH HIM WONT BE SO PAINFUL. IF YOU WANT ANSWERS HOW A MAN IS TO SEXUALLY AROUSE A WOMAN DURING SEXUAL INTERCOURSE, LET ME KNOW. AND ORAL SEX ISNT THE RIGHT WAY TO DO IT. JUST THOUGHT ID LET EVERYONE KNOW THIS.
ok so I just have to say this whole idea of "your vagina will accommodate, it can accommodate a 10 lb baby." Sorry but a women''s body releases a lot of endorphins, the DR gives epidural etc. So it''s not really the same thing!!! Furthermore trying to make someone feel more comfortable by comparing their future sex experience to that of having a baby is so not comforting.
And you forgot to mention that majority of women's vaginas actually TEAR during childbirth (hence many women died after childbirth in the past) so actually no, a woman's vagina does not 'accomodate' a baby passing through.
I have the exact same case. I'm 5 ft and he's got 10 inches. I AM able to enjoy it, but it takes time to figure out how you can work with each other and move together to feel good. He has to be able yo control how deep he goes and you need to tell him when to stop. Also, try different positions. Lube is a lifesaver.
Only, I'm trying to concieve now, and it's hard going with little lube.
It can really hurt though and that's why I'm on this. We've been together for a while and his length hurts when Im not wet enough and I bleed. I'm hoping someone else knows something to help?
Anytime you have to lube its messy..you know it ain't natural when you have to lube..let's face it..some women are built for small penises, some are built for average penises, most are built for above average say like 8 8.5 or 94 and few are built for the monster penis ..not all women want that..every womens virgina size is different one size doesnt fit all I do t care what you say..if it hurts drastically that's your body communicating with you..
Because we've been trying to conceive and sources say that lube can prevent pregnancy by slowing down the sperm or by being unhospitable yo them because of different temperatures and ph levels from the vagina.
protien-based lubes could possibly cause an issue for sperm but unless you're using a spermicidal lubricant your lube shouldn't have any impact on fertility or mobility. The fact that you're bleeding from intercourse will have a much greater impact on the ability of his sperm to locate the ovum. I've never heard of a commercially produced lube affecting conception in any way but if you feel the source you heard it from was legitimate I'd still run it by your doctor.
I'm 16 and me and my boyfriend have been togather for five years now going on six and we have talked about sex but he is ten inches long also and I'm scared that if I have sex with him it will hurt a lot because of his lenght and it will also be my first time ever having sex... Is there anything I can do or is there any advice because I'm really worried about this and I feel that I need a little help???
I'm seventeen and 5 feet tall and my boyfriend is 10 inches I lost my virginity to him and it was amazing it only hurt a little in the begining and if he goes to deep, all I can say is make sure that he goes slow at first and that you find a possition where it doesn't go to deep because that can be very uncomfortable. Just relax and keep trying untill you figure it out it's fun, you just have to trust each other and make sure he's on top I learned that when I'm on top it went in further and it hurts. My favorite position is standing rear entry because it goes in just far enough and the part that doesn't goes between my thighs which is a major turn on but it takes practice.
this helps a lot, my current Boyfriend is 10in and pretty bid width wise too, so I'm nervous about whether it would hurt badly or not.
but before him the person i had sex with was about 7 and it wasn't as pleasuring so im not sure how this will work out
This is for Dr. Andrew. I must say that if I was infogirl247 I would say to you that your advice wasn't helpful at all. What the hell kind of response is that!!!!
Your a DOCTOR. Does it take a big fat wallet to persuade your mind? Jesus . . .
I've been seeing a guy who has a very large penis. I haven't measured it or asked him how big it is, but it's enormous compared to anyone else's I've seen. He can't go in all the way. I tried the first few times believing that my vagina would stretch to accomodate, but it was just too uncomfortable and a kept bleeding. It's been several months since we started our relationship, but I have not found a comfortable/pleasuring sexual position in order for me to have an orgasm. I have two young babies, so been throught the natural birth experience, and it's completely different. I really like him, but he's not happy about that fact sex doesn't make me orgasm. Also, since sleeping together, I find reaching orgasm on my own to be much more difficult. Not sure what to do, his personality really does it for me. I've never had a problem reaching an orgasm through sex with other men. Hmmm.
The last man I had was about 4 - 5 inches, sex was amazing!!! best ever. We broke up 10 months ago because of his temper.... I now have been dating a man with a 15 inch penis.... I've been too scared to let him put his penis inside me... He is a very patient man and has made me have multiple orgasms just with using his fingers.... I actually have never orgasmed with penis penetration but have really enjoyed it.... his last partner enjoyed every inch of him, she couldn't get enough... but he said it takes time and patience which he has plenty of.... He's a very loving man, I'm very lucky...If you both love each other and you're both patient you will find a way to make it work.....
If he cannot put his penis in all the way and then some, your clitoris is never going to get the stimulation you need to orgasm from intercourse alone. Either one of you will have to help it along with fingers, or a small clitoral vibrator.
My advice is to just let him do what he do. I am 26 years old and my penis grew from an 8 inch to an 11 inch when I was 22. From my experience with women I have noticed that a big penis hurts but some women like it. Just let him go wild on u and you will see if you can handle it or not. You might like it. From a guy with a big one I get a lot of restricted sex so all that hit it slow stuff is lame. My advice is to let him hit it as hard as he wants to because if he can't enjoy it he's gonna find someone who will let him do his thing. Trust me this is coming from a guy who knows how it feels to be too big.