my ex of 5 years was always confused. his excuse was he hasnt been with a lot of women, so when one tried to talk to him he looses his head.
at that time deep down inside he wanted to date other pretty women, but keep me around incase i am the best, he didnt want to loose that.
if you were his best and he dates someone crumy after you, he's going to think about his best (you).
i dont think me change it's just that we have to figure out who they are and think with our minds not just our hearts if this is the person we really want to be with.
for example if i go back to my ex i know he would be menatally unstable, want me one day, and dont the next b/c of another women.
unless he had this major change in his life and he is a different person. i wouldn't even talk to him. he had his chance. especially if you think your feelings will get tangled up with him.you get back with him and you will be reminded of why you broke up with him.
my current b/f travels and he is away a lot. i love him very much and i cant picture myself w/o him. you need to be with someone who feels this way about you.