okay me and my boyfriend split awhile ago and i couldn't and haven't gotten over him. he was the first person and only i have ever slept with and i guess that's maybe why i love him so much.

he finished me becuse he said he dint want a girlfriend then he told me he wants me but theres things he doesnt like about me like i cry alot or what ever.

after we split up i dint no what to do. some of my mates told me to go out with them and have fun to get him of my mind and it helped. but one night he was at the same club as me and i tried to ignore him but when i was near him he was always pulling this girl to him who he was supposedly seeing.

before i had asked him if he would ever go back out with me and he said no, but the day after he saw me at the club he was texting me saying he didn't like me dancing with other lads n told me he still had feelings for me even thogh he was seeing this girl he said he coulndt stop thinkin about me but the next day he was completely different with me saying i was annoying and he didn't no what the future would bring so i Just left him but i talked to him nearly everyday with him texting me or ringing me. next he rings me up telling me he was thinking about how we use to be and that it made him cry then he asked me what would i say if he asked me out n i said yes then he was telling me that hes never been okay after we broke up n he misses when we use to go out then the next day hes completly different again i started talking to him n he was like what like hed never said them things i carnt get over him when he saying all this stuff i sometimes think its a waist of time.

hel soon be going into the army and my parents dont like him and all my friends say i can do better but that doesnt stop me loveng him
im 16 and hes 18

what do you think. yesturday i saw him at the same club and he dint realy talk to me and wenever i went near him he just walked away after i went hime i was texting him and ask for him to tell me if he wanted to get back with me and if there was a chance of us getting back together n said ye but he like how he is for now n said lets see how tings go kk and told me he loved me

i dont no if im better of without himand i dont no if hes just messing me about can you help please what should i do??